"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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if u hate a certain race group can u still date them, be friends

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can a racist person who doesnt like a certain group be dating, be in relationship, be friends with that certain group he hates or dislikes-just curious
well ofc i dont hate or dislike those groups

just an example. i am chinese , but i dont like korean ,japanese , white ppl can i still be dating a korean or japanese girl, white girl, be in a relationship with one------- just wondering if its possible for some ppl to hate or not like a certain group but still date them , be friends with them, or have sex with them
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dont know if this is a troll post or not kid, but it has to do with the individual. If you want to date outside your race no ones stopping you, but you.
 
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Yes, they can and do. There's a big difference between a generalization of a race, and being personal with an individual of that race. I generally dislike all 'gangsta' 'hood' types (especially white ones), but if I can be freinds with them if I get to know them. I probably wouldnt date a gangsta chick, but you never know.

Even the most hardcore racists can listen to Jimi Hendrix.

Heres a good example: Im in a Prince Tribute band right now. Our singer is black (his idea, obviously.) He's been hanging out a lot in my local bar for three years. My bar is notoriously racist in general, but even the guys with swazi tattoos like my singer, but as soon as he leaves, the n**** jokes commence. Of course, my singer doesnt fit any black stereotypes whatsoever. The only stereotype he fits is the starving musican one.

He's had a couple girls at the bar kiss him just to see what a black dude is like. Girls that cliam they would never touch a black guy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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joe45 said:
can a racist person who doesnt like a certain group be dating, be in relationship, be friends with that certain group he hates or dislikes-just curious
well ofc i dont hate or dislike those groups

just an example. i am chinese , but i dont like korean ,japanese , white ppl can i still be dating a korean or japanese girl, white girl, be in a relationship with one------- just wondering if its possible for some ppl to hate or not like a certain group but still date them , be friends with them, or have sex with them
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No. You're not allowed.
 
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Why is race still an issue? Race is not an issue. Its only an issue when your such a low life, that you cant look above it all. President barack obama is half black half white. I myself is half black half white. My father is an italian and my mother is black. I have dated white girls, black girls, vietnese girls, japenese girls, korean girls, indian girls, russian girls, turkish girls, im glad theres so many races or else it would get pretty boring. I plan to have a baby with a girl from every race.
 
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I think this post is legitimate. It is a pretty decent question if you think about it. We all have our preferences and if someone makes you feel what you expect out of your preference that is another race even though you have reservations about their race, ONLY you know in your heart if you could make it work.

For one, If I find another race attractive and she holds the same view as me and we get along famously, then it sounds VERY doable.

The problem we make is sometimes we generalize any given race, but the good thing is we can and do allow that prejudice to slip away as we learn about the person as one instead of a whole.

There are some that would not allow that to happen, but for a lot of folks including me I would. Only problem you run into if you click is family and friends that are looking at you as a whole group instead of you.

Good question you asked in my opinion.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I plan to have a baby with a girl from every race.
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That is called "doing the rainbow". Has been done by many black athletes in America who will sleep with anything that has been potty trained. The elite athletes must accomplish the rainbow at the same moment. That means seven or more women of different backgrounds in bed at once. Doesn't matter if they are fat, ugly, or smelly. The idea is to get a "rainbow" of women at the same moment. Trust me, I couldn't make this stuff up. Hell, I don't even find it remotely interesting.
 
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That is called "doing the rainbow". Has been done by many black athletes in America who will sleep with anything that has been potty trained. The elite athletes must accomplish the rainbow at the same moment. That means seven or more women of different backgrounds in bed at once. Doesn't matter if they are fat, ugly, or smelly. The idea is to get a "rainbow" of women at the same moment. Trust me, I couldn't make this stuff up. Hell, I don't even find it remotely interesting.
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Bull****.

Athletes (black and white) do a good job of f'king up their reputations without you adding race-baiting fairytales to the mix.
 
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