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She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

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if u hate a certain race group can u still date them, be friends

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can a racist person who doesnt like a certain group be dating, be in relationship, be friends with that certain group he hates or dislikes-just curious
well ofc i dont hate or dislike those groups

just an example. i am chinese , but i dont like korean ,japanese , white ppl can i still be dating a korean or japanese girl, white girl, be in a relationship with one------- just wondering if its possible for some ppl to hate or not like a certain group but still date them , be friends with them, or have sex with them
 

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Dont know if this is a troll post or not kid, but it has to do with the individual. If you want to date outside your race no ones stopping you, but you.
 
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Yes, they can and do. There's a big difference between a generalization of a race, and being personal with an individual of that race. I generally dislike all 'gangsta' 'hood' types (especially white ones), but if I can be freinds with them if I get to know them. I probably wouldnt date a gangsta chick, but you never know.

Even the most hardcore racists can listen to Jimi Hendrix.

Heres a good example: Im in a Prince Tribute band right now. Our singer is black (his idea, obviously.) He's been hanging out a lot in my local bar for three years. My bar is notoriously racist in general, but even the guys with swazi tattoos like my singer, but as soon as he leaves, the n**** jokes commence. Of course, my singer doesnt fit any black stereotypes whatsoever. The only stereotype he fits is the starving musican one.

He's had a couple girls at the bar kiss him just to see what a black dude is like. Girls that cliam they would never touch a black guy.
 

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She's been waiting forty minutes.

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joe45 said:
can a racist person who doesnt like a certain group be dating, be in relationship, be friends with that certain group he hates or dislikes-just curious
well ofc i dont hate or dislike those groups

just an example. i am chinese , but i dont like korean ,japanese , white ppl can i still be dating a korean or japanese girl, white girl, be in a relationship with one------- just wondering if its possible for some ppl to hate or not like a certain group but still date them , be friends with them, or have sex with them
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No. You're not allowed.
 
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Why is race still an issue? Race is not an issue. Its only an issue when your such a low life, that you cant look above it all. President barack obama is half black half white. I myself is half black half white. My father is an italian and my mother is black. I have dated white girls, black girls, vietnese girls, japenese girls, korean girls, indian girls, russian girls, turkish girls, im glad theres so many races or else it would get pretty boring. I plan to have a baby with a girl from every race.
 
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I think this post is legitimate. It is a pretty decent question if you think about it. We all have our preferences and if someone makes you feel what you expect out of your preference that is another race even though you have reservations about their race, ONLY you know in your heart if you could make it work.

For one, If I find another race attractive and she holds the same view as me and we get along famously, then it sounds VERY doable.

The problem we make is sometimes we generalize any given race, but the good thing is we can and do allow that prejudice to slip away as we learn about the person as one instead of a whole.

There are some that would not allow that to happen, but for a lot of folks including me I would. Only problem you run into if you click is family and friends that are looking at you as a whole group instead of you.

Good question you asked in my opinion.
 

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I plan to have a baby with a girl from every race.
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That is called "doing the rainbow". Has been done by many black athletes in America who will sleep with anything that has been potty trained. The elite athletes must accomplish the rainbow at the same moment. That means seven or more women of different backgrounds in bed at once. Doesn't matter if they are fat, ugly, or smelly. The idea is to get a "rainbow" of women at the same moment. Trust me, I couldn't make this stuff up. Hell, I don't even find it remotely interesting.
 
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That is called "doing the rainbow". Has been done by many black athletes in America who will sleep with anything that has been potty trained. The elite athletes must accomplish the rainbow at the same moment. That means seven or more women of different backgrounds in bed at once. Doesn't matter if they are fat, ugly, or smelly. The idea is to get a "rainbow" of women at the same moment. Trust me, I couldn't make this stuff up. Hell, I don't even find it remotely interesting.
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Bull****.

Athletes (black and white) do a good job of f'king up their reputations without you adding race-baiting fairytales to the mix.
 
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