"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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If this stuff isn't IOI's, I dont know what is.

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So this girl at work got dumped recently, she was always talking to me about how all these guys compliment her, and how yher boyfriend did sexual stuff with her. Now this looks like to me that she's trying to show me some social proof.

So she gets dumped, she's telling me how bad she wants a boyfriend again, how much she hates her ex and how much she wants to be kissed again. She's alays talking to me about sexual stuff, so right there she's comfortable.

We plan to hang out on a day and she ends up cancelling at the last minute. She had a good excuse, but there's really no telling if it was the truth or not.

She asked if we could chill next week, I said sure. I figured I wouldnt talk to her very often or suggest that we chill untill she brings it up or initiates something.

I'm still a rAFC trying to learn more stuff. I need to know what the F*ck she's teasin me so much for.

Any tips?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thickandcreamy said:
Pay attention to what she DOES, not what she SAYS.
Even though I am not into one line posts this post is golden. This is how I judge my woman. Everyone should judge girls this way.

When your with a girl always look at how she makes you feel and not the things she says to you. The things she does.

Tips to show a girl has a high interest level in you.
1. doesn't cancel plans
2. Returns you phone calls pronto.
3. Initiates sex.
4. Would rather be with you than with her friends.
5. She is happy just being with you. Don't have to go on a date with her.

If she does the opposite of the 5 things above than she has a low interest level in you and nothing will come out of this relationship.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Your sig text is too big. If we all did that, then it defeats the purpose. Tone it down. It's the DIFFERENCE in emphasis that attracts people. What is the first thing you notice about my signature? Exactly, and done with what, +2 font?
 
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