"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Here's a really depressing read about men and women who are chemically castrated, or who want to castrate themselves because their wives go on pvssy strike:

http://www.partnertherapy.com/node/74

Here's a representative sample:

I too have been trying to find a way to lower my sex drive to more closely match hers, which would mean a drop of 90 percent or so. Unfortunately there is almost no information on this, and seems to be no solution. Also when we have sought help and when I have done research on this, it always comes out the same: the man is always the problem. I guess its just something we have to deal with. Face it, in the bedroom women have ALL the power and ALL the say and we have to deal with it the best we can. I will NOT have an affair, I will NOT leave her and our children. I just have to keep working at limiting the frustration as much as I can and coping with things as they are. I remind myself that 10 times a year is better than nothing. That is my only other alternative in the given situation.​

The poor bastard! You gotta feel for him.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Damn skippy it seems like she has the power. You know why? Because you married her and if you divorce her you WILL be financially ruined.

Get pre-nups fools.
 

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What the ****. I feel for the guy, bloody hell. What is the answer to that situation though. We can all say, that's never going to happen to us, etc. But he has kids, a family. Sure he could get a divorce but is that really the only answer?
 

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Somebody should explain that poor guy that the problem is not his sex drive, the problem is that useless piece of flesh he calls wife who consider marriage and family as some kind of bonds investment where she just wait her capital to work with no effort...and better yet explain that also to those sons of a b1tch who make laws.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Somebody should explain that poor guy that
Nobody should explain anything. I'm sure that his friends told him it was a dumb idea but he decides to go with it. When someone is so completely stupid and oblivious, it's best just to let them be.

They will do good in the end and serve as a warning to others of what NOT to do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Obviously the solution for that guy is to jack off...into her hair as she sleeps. Soon she will learn that it's much less messy to be awake while the event happens, and then he would have something at least resembling sex.
 

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Some of you act like the problem is marriage. Or the woman. Or anything but the guy. Sure, it seems that way, especially in a forum like this promoting positive masculinity. That is expected. But I think we should also be promoting being a man and all that goes with it. This guy should nut up, quit begging his wife for pvssy, quit supplicating to her and she'll probably start wanting to fvck HIM more than he's whining to fvck HER.

We're men, we're the leaders. Our role is not being forcefully taken away, we're LETTING it be taken away. We can take it back at any time. This sh1t is chess, it ain't checkers.

Wonder how fat this guy is? Wonder if they fart on each other, have nasty breath all the time? Alot of questions that could be answered, you know.

All I'm saying is, that if this guy is on top of his game, then he has a right to complain. Until then, STFU and get his sh1t together.
 

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The best option is to not marry a b!tch. I have been married for 2 years to a foreign girl and she sucks my **** every night and she spreads her legs whenever I want.
 

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Gentlemen's Rule #12: Don't find fault. Find the solution and fix the problem.

Gentlemen's Rule # 4: The man is NEVER at fault.

If the woman is menopausal and has low libido, just the opposite: the woman is broken and needs fixed. She needs hormone replacement therapy.

If she's just a b1tch and went on pvssy strike, I agree with this:

Bible_Belt said:
Obviously the solution for that guy is to jack off...into her hair as she sleeps. Soon she will learn that it's much less messy to be awake while the event happens, and then he would have something at least resembling sex.
Or go caveman until she learns that cooperation in bed is rewarded with tenderness.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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