"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Down Low

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Here's a really depressing read about men and women who are chemically castrated, or who want to castrate themselves because their wives go on pvssy strike:

http://www.partnertherapy.com/node/74

Here's a representative sample:

I too have been trying to find a way to lower my sex drive to more closely match hers, which would mean a drop of 90 percent or so. Unfortunately there is almost no information on this, and seems to be no solution. Also when we have sought help and when I have done research on this, it always comes out the same: the man is always the problem. I guess its just something we have to deal with. Face it, in the bedroom women have ALL the power and ALL the say and we have to deal with it the best we can. I will NOT have an affair, I will NOT leave her and our children. I just have to keep working at limiting the frustration as much as I can and coping with things as they are. I remind myself that 10 times a year is better than nothing. That is my only other alternative in the given situation.​

The poor bastard! You gotta feel for him.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Damn skippy it seems like she has the power. You know why? Because you married her and if you divorce her you WILL be financially ruined.

Get pre-nups fools.
 

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What the ****. I feel for the guy, bloody hell. What is the answer to that situation though. We can all say, that's never going to happen to us, etc. But he has kids, a family. Sure he could get a divorce but is that really the only answer?
 

Who Dares Win

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Somebody should explain that poor guy that the problem is not his sex drive, the problem is that useless piece of flesh he calls wife who consider marriage and family as some kind of bonds investment where she just wait her capital to work with no effort...and better yet explain that also to those sons of a b1tch who make laws.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Somebody should explain that poor guy that
Nobody should explain anything. I'm sure that his friends told him it was a dumb idea but he decides to go with it. When someone is so completely stupid and oblivious, it's best just to let them be.

They will do good in the end and serve as a warning to others of what NOT to do.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Obviously the solution for that guy is to jack off...into her hair as she sleeps. Soon she will learn that it's much less messy to be awake while the event happens, and then he would have something at least resembling sex.
 

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Some of you act like the problem is marriage. Or the woman. Or anything but the guy. Sure, it seems that way, especially in a forum like this promoting positive masculinity. That is expected. But I think we should also be promoting being a man and all that goes with it. This guy should nut up, quit begging his wife for pvssy, quit supplicating to her and she'll probably start wanting to fvck HIM more than he's whining to fvck HER.

We're men, we're the leaders. Our role is not being forcefully taken away, we're LETTING it be taken away. We can take it back at any time. This sh1t is chess, it ain't checkers.

Wonder how fat this guy is? Wonder if they fart on each other, have nasty breath all the time? Alot of questions that could be answered, you know.

All I'm saying is, that if this guy is on top of his game, then he has a right to complain. Until then, STFU and get his sh1t together.
 

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The best option is to not marry a b!tch. I have been married for 2 years to a foreign girl and she sucks my **** every night and she spreads her legs whenever I want.
 

Down Low

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Gentlemen's Rule #12: Don't find fault. Find the solution and fix the problem.

Gentlemen's Rule # 4: The man is NEVER at fault.

If the woman is menopausal and has low libido, just the opposite: the woman is broken and needs fixed. She needs hormone replacement therapy.

If she's just a b1tch and went on pvssy strike, I agree with this:

Bible_Belt said:
Obviously the solution for that guy is to jack off...into her hair as she sleeps. Soon she will learn that it's much less messy to be awake while the event happens, and then he would have something at least resembling sex.
Or go caveman until she learns that cooperation in bed is rewarded with tenderness.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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