"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If there was one thing you could change...

Triple T

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If there was one thing you could change about your life when you were younger...what would it be?
Give your reasoning.

It can be anything from doing better in school, to not doing drugs to asking out that girl in gr. 10.
Anything!


I've been discussing with a few of my older co-workers about there lives and how they have TONS of regrets from their youth. These guys were teaching me to learn from their mistakes and to live my life to the fullest without regrets.
So I've come here to this site as well, to absorb more lessons that need to be taught. Answers to the question above will greatly help me and other youngs guys here with our lives.

Share your wisdom :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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j-flex

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awsome post!!!, i done the same questions.

although i dont really have any regrets at all because all the suffer i have been through only made me the man i am today.

but i regret when i went to europe i didnt smoke weed in amsterdam and i didnt sarge european girls.

also i regret some chicks who i didnt ask out.
 
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Been more open with my family about having social problems.. and my self esteem..

Kept both hidden deep until I was in my 20's
 

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Triple T said:
If there was one thing you could change about your life when you were younger...what would it be?
Give your reasoning.
My underwear.

Reason: They're beginning to chaffe and the "Disco Duck" cartoon is brown and faded.



Cheers!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Probably:
Study a bit more - who HASN'T had this thought?
Learn how to handle girls about 6 months before I did.
And start boxing when I was 15-16, not 17 and then take a 2 year break at 18 - ****ing army.
 

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bbestar said:
None, I'm completely fine and ok with everything, since God has taken care of it.

how do u know god has taken care of it ?
 
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