"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If there was one thing you could change...

Triple T

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If there was one thing you could change about your life when you were younger...what would it be?
Give your reasoning.

It can be anything from doing better in school, to not doing drugs to asking out that girl in gr. 10.
Anything!


I've been discussing with a few of my older co-workers about there lives and how they have TONS of regrets from their youth. These guys were teaching me to learn from their mistakes and to live my life to the fullest without regrets.
So I've come here to this site as well, to absorb more lessons that need to be taught. Answers to the question above will greatly help me and other youngs guys here with our lives.

Share your wisdom :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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j-flex

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awsome post!!!, i done the same questions.

although i dont really have any regrets at all because all the suffer i have been through only made me the man i am today.

but i regret when i went to europe i didnt smoke weed in amsterdam and i didnt sarge european girls.

also i regret some chicks who i didnt ask out.
 
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Been more open with my family about having social problems.. and my self esteem..

Kept both hidden deep until I was in my 20's
 

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Triple T said:
If there was one thing you could change about your life when you were younger...what would it be?
Give your reasoning.
My underwear.

Reason: They're beginning to chaffe and the "Disco Duck" cartoon is brown and faded.



Cheers!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Probably:
Study a bit more - who HASN'T had this thought?
Learn how to handle girls about 6 months before I did.
And start boxing when I was 15-16, not 17 and then take a 2 year break at 18 - ****ing army.
 

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bbestar said:
None, I'm completely fine and ok with everything, since God has taken care of it.

how do u know god has taken care of it ?
 
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