Yes, some of his 18 year old women had assh*les that were too tight.
I'll take his problems over my own.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
If the quality of women goes down as you get older, why do a lot of you say to get married WAY later
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I'll take his problems over my own.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I've gotta say Hugh Hefner is one of the worst examples of a ladies man. The girls he has are literally only with the guy for his status/money, there's no desire there - none of them give a **** about the guy. There are countless interviews with the girls he spends time with. Nothing about that man impresses me.
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I'd like to take his problems with women over my own too...
You may as well pay for hookers: That's essentially what they are...
He created an empire. He made hundreds of women famous, if not thousands. He had a system where 200 of the most beautiful girls in the world were always lined up to have sex with him. He (was, in his prime) up there with Will Smith and Tom Brady as men 99% of us would trade places with, IMO.
What girls aren't? Swallow the red pill and realize the girls you think are nuns swallow too.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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hookers fvck with everyone, im fine paying as long as Im the only client...after all thats what marriage is you pay for exclusivity except that its more expensive
I'd much rather have a hooker who only slept with me than a wife who pretended to.
But just look at the guy. Do you honestly think these women are sexually attracted to an elderly man? You have to be kidding me. I'm not criticising his ability as a businessman - that's admirable, but this idea that he's sexually desirable to beautiful young women is a joke.
That's an incredibly cynical opinion, but if that's what you want to believe then go for it.
Again, very cynical but if that's what to believe, fine.
Hugh started the business in 1957 at age 31. His heyday was 1980. When Dorothy Stratten was killed by her psycho ex that probably ended his reign, but he was 54 then. He still had 30 more years of dating Playmates.
Reality and the red pill are indeed cynical.
Don't be a fool, Neil. If you think every marriage is a failure then you need to get your head checked.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You are right! Only 51% of marriages fail.
God bless Hugh! He's still alive at 91! Testament to the power of young women.
My last girl healed me like no other. I honestly believe she healed me of Circumcision trauma when we spent the night at the site of Gone with the Wind (the string tie and her Rhett fantasy did it for her).
To put it in perspective, SteR, the girl who will one day heal you is now 6.
devilkingx2
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not divorcing isn't the mark of success in a marriage, haven't you ever seen a sitcom where the old couple bickers constantly and can barely get along (I think both that 70s show and everybody loves raymond had couples like this) or the couple is one beta cuck being controlled by his bitchy wife (everybody loves raymond, king of queens, etc.)
the success of a marriage is when the marriage is actually good and enjoyable for both parties
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Guys have to get this concept... women today can have sex since they're in their early teens, 14-15 with some a little bit earlier or later, and they have access to porn much earlier than that. They will already be experienced by the time they become adults, the "c0ck carousel" doesn't start at 18 or 20 or 23, it starts way earlier. Thinking about how much sex a woman has had is just a dead end. It's like thinking about how many times she's taken a sh!t today, the thought itself is both pointless and negative - for you! What matters is how good she is to you, now. The solution is to redirect your thought, free yourself from the weakness of your self-constraining, self-destructive ego. Why do you need a woman who is a virgin? is she you? do you need her to complete you?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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This. Good post, man.
I base it on:
1) Does her vagina taste like candy?
2) Did I not catch any diseases?
3) Does she turn me on 100%?
4) Does she allow me unlimited sex when we are together?
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Regardless of some things I see here ( and I'm very new to the red pill ethos) surely we ALL have to pay kudos on some level ( and a huge individual doff of the old hat sir) to Neil...He consistently puts himself up for scrutiny, and has a huge set of the old proverbials . And a littany of 20 something's he puts up for often unfair critique.... For what its worth Neil I expected your previous relationship to make 18 mths...but your new girl looks a bit like a former of mine and she was DYNAMITE..... Bit volatile but worth every minute.. Power on
Regardless of some things I see here ( and I'm very new to the red pill ethos) surely we ALL have to pay kudos on some level ( and a huge individual doff of the old hat sir) to Neil...He consistently puts himself up for scrutiny, and has a huge set of the old proverbials . And a littany of 20 something's he puts up for often unfair critique.... For what its worth Neil I expected your previous relationship to make 18 mths...but your new girl looks a bit like a former of mine and she was DYNAMITE..... Bit volatile but worth every minute.. Power on
I've been dating top tier women (in terms of photo ratings) since I was 41.
It was almost safe for you to say this a week after I broke up with my 21 year old. Too bad I found a 20 year old within 5 days.
Wait... men in the Navy are from great families? That's minimum wage. I almost joined the Navy in 1993 and by the grace of God I was late to the entrance exam.
Now you are taking the 20 year old women prefer 20 year old men angle? That is the most absurd thing you ever said here.
@BeExcellent, please provide a working example of how a 20 year male old keeps a "top tier" (i.e., really hot, from a rich family, like my ex girlfriend) 20 year old female happy? (Note to readers: I've bedded about 40 women and ZERO were from the year I was born, or the year after). What did he do for a living? What is his salary? How much is the mortgage? What is his car payment? How much did his rich daddy chip in? Is that your point, that girls want a guy their age with a rich daddy? Ok, but only 1% will get that.
At age 47 I can just now barely keep a 20 year old woman happy.
At age 47 I can just now barely keep a 20 year old woman happy.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.