Yes, some of his 18 year old women had assh*les that were too tight.Even Hugh had struggles with females!
I'll take his problems over my own.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yes, some of his 18 year old women had assh*les that were too tight.Even Hugh had struggles with females!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I've gotta say Hugh Hefner is one of the worst examples of a ladies man. The girls he has are literally only with the guy for his status/money, there's no desire there - none of them give a **** about the guy. There are countless interviews with the girls he spends time with. Nothing about that man impresses me.Not Hugh Hefner or myself.
I'd like to take his problems with women over my own too...I've gotta say Hugh Hefner is one of the worst examples of a ladies man. The girls he has are literally only with the guy for his status/money, there's no desire there - none of them give a **** about the guy. There are countless interviews with the girls he spends time with. Nothing about that man impresses me.
You may as well pay for hookers: That's essentially what they are...I'd like to take his problems with women over my own too...
He created an empire. He made hundreds of women famous, if not thousands. He had a system where 200 of the most beautiful girls in the world were always lined up to have sex with him. He (was, in his prime) up there with Will Smith and Tom Brady as men 99% of us would trade places with, IMO.I've gotta say Hugh Hefner is one of the worst examples of a ladies man. The girls he has are literally only with the guy for his status/money, there's no desire there - none of them give a **** about the guy. There are countless interviews with the girls he spends time with. Nothing about that man impresses me.
What girls aren't? Swallow the red pill and realize the girls you think are nuns swallow too.You may as well pay for hookers: That's essentially what they are...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
hookers fvck with everyone, im fine paying as long as Im the only client...after all thats what marriage is you pay for exclusivity except that its more expensiveYou may as well pay for hookers: That's essentially what they are...
I'd much rather have a hooker who only slept with me than a wife who pretended to.hookers fvck with everyone, im fine paying as long as Im the only client...after all thats what marriage is you pay for exclusivity except that its more expensive
But just look at the guy. Do you honestly think these women are sexually attracted to an elderly man? You have to be kidding me. I'm not criticising his ability as a businessman - that's admirable, but this idea that he's sexually desirable to beautiful young women is a joke.He created an empire. He made hundreds of women famous, if not thousands. He had a system where 200 of the most beautiful girls in the world were always lined up to have sex with him. He (was, in his prime) up there with Will Smith and Tom Brady as men 99% of us would trade places with, IMO.
That's an incredibly cynical opinion, but if that's what you want to believe then go for it.What girls aren't? Swallow the red pill and realize the girls you think are nuns swallow too.
Again, very cynical but if that's what to believe, fine.hookers fvck with everyone, im fine paying as long as Im the only client...after all thats what marriage is you pay for exclusivity except that its more expensive
Hugh started the business in 1957 at age 31. His heyday was 1980. When Dorothy Stratten was killed by her psycho ex that probably ended his reign, but he was 54 then. He still had 30 more years of dating Playmates.But just look at the guy. Do you honestly think these women are sexually attracted to an elderly man? You have to be kidding me. I'm not criticising his ability as a businessman - that's admirable, but this idea that he's sexually desirable to beautiful young women is a joke.
That's an incredibly cynical opinion, but if that's what you want to believe then go for it.
Again, very cynical but if that's what to believe, fine.
Don't be a fool, Neil. If you think every marriage is a failure then you need to get your head checked.Hugh started the business in 1957 at age 31. His heyday was 1980. When Dorothy Stratten was killed by her psycho ex that probably ended his reign, but he was 54 then. He still had 30 more years of dating Playmates.
Reality and the red pill are indeed cynical.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You are right! Only 51% of marriages fail.Don't be a fool, Neil. If you think every marriage is a failure then you need to get your head checked.
not divorcing isn't the mark of success in a marriage, haven't you ever seen a sitcom where the old couple bickers constantly and can barely get along (I think both that 70s show and everybody loves raymond had couples like this) or the couple is one beta cuck being controlled by his bitchy wife (everybody loves raymond, king of queens, etc.)Don't be a fool, Neil. If you think every marriage is a failure then you need to get your head checked.
Guys have to get this concept... women today can have sex since they're in their early teens, 14-15 with some a little bit earlier or later, and they have access to porn much earlier than that. They will already be experienced by the time they become adults, the "c0ck carousel" doesn't start at 18 or 20 or 23, it starts way earlier. Thinking about how much sex a woman has had is just a dead end. It's like thinking about how many times she's taken a sh!t today, the thought itself is both pointless and negative - for you! What matters is how good she is to you, now. The solution is to redirect your thought, free yourself from the weakness of your self-constraining, self-destructive ego. Why do you need a woman who is a virgin? is she you? do you need her to complete you?What girls aren't? Swallow the red pill and realize the girls you think are nuns swallow too.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
This. Good post, man.What matters is how good she is to you, now. The solution is to redirect your thought, free yourself from the weakness of your self-constraining, self-destructive ego. Why do you need a woman who is a virgin? is she you? do you need her to complete you?
I base it on:Guys have to get this concept... women today can have sex since they're in their early teens, 14-15 with some a little bit earlier or later, and they have access to porn much earlier than that. They will already be experienced by the time they become adults, the "c0ck carousel" doesn't start at 18 or 20 or 23, it starts way earlier. Thinking about how much sex a woman has had is just a dead end. It's like thinking about how many times she's taken a sh!t today, the thought itself is both pointless and negative - for you! What matters is how good she is to you, now. The solution is to redirect your thought, free yourself from the weakness of your self-constraining, self-destructive ego. Why do you need a woman who is a virgin? is she you? do you need her to complete you?
I've been dating top tier women (in terms of photo ratings) since I was 41.Almost none of the older men here are dating the top tier women in their 20s ...
Beautiful feminine women from great families marry young men from great families almost without exception. The families mutually support the young couple and guide them. I have new renters in one on my nicest houses. They are a young married couple, both 20 years old. The husband is in the Navy and my rent house is in a nice area and happens to be across the street from his parents. They wanted my house precisely so that the wife can be near her in-laws and with family while the husband is at sea.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.