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Is this one true redpill that every man should accept?
I guess most of you would agree, but why are there examples of girls dumping Johnny Depp or some other celebrities.
Dicaprio dumped many girls himself. What is the in-relation game difference between Dicaprio and alike and other people who get dumped by their partner?
 

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The rules of intergender dynamics doesn't change just because we're talking about celebrities. A Johnny Depp might be a hero for you because of his persona in the movies, but he might be a total beta when it comes to women. I know nothing about his romantic life except he was left by Vanessa Paradis - the mother of his children - after hitting her or something like that if i recall correctly.
DiCaprio or Depp, it doesn't matter who it is. The universal laws still apply. Status and success might attract women but it won't keep them around. It's not about your worth, it's about her perception of you and if her perception is that you're a total loser or that she found a man who she perceives as better, then she will leave sooner or later.
 

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What man can match SMV of Amber Heard in her peak? IMO only the one that is very high in SMV and simultaneously that DGAF about her. Now try to find a man that DGAF about his relationship with woman like Amber Heard or Margot Robbie in her peak. Such guys do exist but they are very rare, some of them probably bisexual or even gay but go after women for the same purpose women go after men - for status boost.

So guys like Johnny Depp or Elon Musk are just stepping stones for women like Amber Heard.

Most of guys don't understand that feminism gives boost to female SMV while simultaneously cuts male SMV (males are for earning money, providing fun to women and providing resources for family purpose, sometimes to raise other guys offspring).

There are guys like Dan Bilzerian that have natural advantages and understand women profoundly and they capitalise on this profoundly - there are also guys like Bezos that learn the hard way (by divorce) when their SMV is already past their peak.

Money and status or even looks don't keep SMV 10 women for long these days. Bilzerian understands it so he simply DGAF about traditional model of life. He has fun and he wins. If you want to keep a woman you need to pick up woman several points below your own SMV if she is past her romantic stage.

You can DJ some women (those that read romantic novels) as they crave for romance and they are good option for LTR - woman that is only after pricey holidays, beautiful things, artsy looking food - woman like that treats you like a plate. Once the best things on the plate were eaten it's time to go after another plate (some women understand well that romantic phase of the relationship is phase when guy provides a lot of things to them in order to court them - wine&dine all the time, nice gifts, cool trips - once this stage is over she ditches him to ride another first-months wave with another guy).

So 40-something guys are perfect target for STR's. They can provide, they can help younger women in career (Amber Heard popularity boost due to dating Depp) and eventually older guys are used to be left alone after a while - it's not like it happened for the first time to them.
 
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If the girl is ready to leave you then you are not worthy enough!

Not true.. Maybe either one of them is dodging a bullet and millions of other variables, Never ever prove yourself worthy to a girl, make it worth for yourself.. Just for the info i get a mind blowing 3 some today hahahaa
 

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If the girl is ready to leave you then you are not worthy enough!

Not true.. Maybe either one of them is dodging a bullet and millions of other variables, Never ever prove yourself worthy to a girl, make it worth for yourself.. Just for the info i get a mind blowing 3 some today hahahaa
Think he means the willingness for her to overcome typical logistics to stay around him. Let's not be too technical.
 

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Think he means the willingness for her to overcome typical logistics to stay around him. Let's not be too technical.
Yup agreed, let say when you fail to filter out these women you would seeing great devastating results.
 

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Think he means the willingness for her to overcome typical logistics to stay around him. Let's not be too technical.
Yes the willingness. You can see it. Some girls leave to find peace for some time but they show signs of willingness to come back. But some just are not at all interested. It happens and you know you are not worthy. Increase your SMV then.
 

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Yes the willingness. You can see it. Some girls leave to find peace for some time but they show signs of willingness to come back. But some just are not at all interested. It happens and you know you are not worthy. Increase your SMV then.
not much as your worthy, but as her perceived value, woman tend to have her how value inflated, so as long she belives she can do better she will replace her guy, hence why you need to understand what prevent woman from leaving is several factors, fear of losing you or her lifestyle, knowing she can't do better, losing her social circle, hence why one tactic of dating woman is bring her to your social circle, if find place there chances are she will stay, also reason most woman try to kill the men social circle, to keep him in control
 

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A perfect example of a celebrity who is a total beta with women is the rapper Drake. Rappers in general are good with women, they tend to NOT put women on pedestals as much as other celebrities and usually have many women in their rotations, abundance mindset and all, but this guy is just embarrasing himself by proposing to Rihanna on stage which was the biggest cringe ever, and not surprisingly she's dismissing a guy like that and runs back to her alpha lover chris brown everytime. Couldn't have scripted it any better.
 

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This is why I don't believe a marriage will last unless you and your spouse live under a rock. The options are almost endless for anyone. I consistently lose interest in the girls I date or couple up with because another woman gets my interest. The unfortunate reality is that it's the same for females so I don't feel bad if that happens. It just is what it is.
 

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American women aren’t looking for worthy men. This is the wrong metric to use. American women look for useful men. Once you’ve outlived you’re usefulness, it’s time to move on for her.

Just look at playboy guys. Are they worthy men or just losers in society who will all end up as meth addicts one day? These guys are sexually useful for women.
 

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That "you're not worthy enough" goes back to the PUA idea that you can control every reaction and emotion that women have. That if they don't respond the way you want, then YOU are the problem, and you're game isn't tight enough. I've never believed in that.

Sometimes women will just get bored with a guy, no matter who it is. In a lot of celebrity marriages, the woman gets disillusioned because it isn't what she as expecting, the actor guy is always traveling or is too wrapped up in his craft, or is leaving her to deal with the kids all the time, that sort of thing.
 

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You can hold her, if she comes to you, or drop her, and she'll cling to you, but chase her, and she'll run from you. You can only pursue a thing without a will of its own. You must be able to tend without serving, and to take without needing.
 

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A woman leaves a man when she finds someone ‘better’ in her eyes to replace him. But that does not imply he is bad. Both men could be outstanding men by everyone’s definition. But the second one, to her, is slightly more outstanding than the first.
 

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