"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If 'social' media were to dissappear forever.

Naughty Ninja

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What would people do if things like Facebook, Twitter, Youtube, Myspace, T.V., the internet, cellular phones were all gone forever as far as social relationships? Would the world be better off without them as far as interacting with people?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Radharc

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Except for tv, that has been the reality of a lot of ppl older than 30 for a long time, you just have to think how it was back then.

I think the main difference was that ppl placed more effort on actual interaction with others, instead of virtual interaction. More effort equaled less but better chosen targets and probably more consistent results as well, todays social networkrs interactions are, in a way, a bit like carpet bombing.
 

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I liked the net much better before myspace, facebook and twitter. Those sites sicken me to be honest. I cannot stand seeing all the attention hoes on it and the love to tell everything on them. They are silly as hell and there are men that are just as bad. I still have facebook, but I rarely use it and hardly ever talk to anyone on it. I do keep it for the contacts.

Those sites ruined what used to be a good thing. Getting women off the net used to be like shooting fish in the barrel and as it became more popular with those silly sites, it has become hard to sell yourself as being better than the next guy. When I see a bunch of pics of girls sky diving, clubbing and foreign travel, I see it as boasting. I think to myself, "she is probably as miserable as anybody else!" Let me just see a nice pic of you w/o the garbage. If you are fun, real life will prove it.

Just look at the average women on plentyoffish and other sites, thinking they can get whomever they want and in a real life situation they would not stand a chance with a dude that has his $hit together.... Hey I used to be that guy!! I am getting it back though.

Nothing beats real life interaction. Was true back in the day and even more so now.
 

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I feel their is nothing wrong with those things if they are used secondary option. However, for most people that is not the case and that is their primary source for finding a relationship.
 

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Then America would be %1000 more productive and there would be no such thing as "an obesity epidemic"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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