"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If 'social' media were to dissappear forever.

Naughty Ninja

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What would people do if things like Facebook, Twitter, Youtube, Myspace, T.V., the internet, cellular phones were all gone forever as far as social relationships? Would the world be better off without them as far as interacting with people?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Radharc

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Except for tv, that has been the reality of a lot of ppl older than 30 for a long time, you just have to think how it was back then.

I think the main difference was that ppl placed more effort on actual interaction with others, instead of virtual interaction. More effort equaled less but better chosen targets and probably more consistent results as well, todays social networkrs interactions are, in a way, a bit like carpet bombing.
 

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I liked the net much better before myspace, facebook and twitter. Those sites sicken me to be honest. I cannot stand seeing all the attention hoes on it and the love to tell everything on them. They are silly as hell and there are men that are just as bad. I still have facebook, but I rarely use it and hardly ever talk to anyone on it. I do keep it for the contacts.

Those sites ruined what used to be a good thing. Getting women off the net used to be like shooting fish in the barrel and as it became more popular with those silly sites, it has become hard to sell yourself as being better than the next guy. When I see a bunch of pics of girls sky diving, clubbing and foreign travel, I see it as boasting. I think to myself, "she is probably as miserable as anybody else!" Let me just see a nice pic of you w/o the garbage. If you are fun, real life will prove it.

Just look at the average women on plentyoffish and other sites, thinking they can get whomever they want and in a real life situation they would not stand a chance with a dude that has his $hit together.... Hey I used to be that guy!! I am getting it back though.

Nothing beats real life interaction. Was true back in the day and even more so now.
 

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I feel their is nothing wrong with those things if they are used secondary option. However, for most people that is not the case and that is their primary source for finding a relationship.
 

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Then America would be %1000 more productive and there would be no such thing as "an obesity epidemic"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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