"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If she's interested will she contact YOU?

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so me and the girl were flirting before the summer holidays.

she said that i have a big ****, should be her bf and she fancies me

etc. but on the other hand we didn't really talk much more than that and she was flirting with this other guy who told me that she also wants sex from him.

summer holidays starts on monday.

should i chase her or if she's truly interested she'll contact me over the summer?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chase her. But to a point. Show her your unmistakably interested and then watch what she does. If it's nothing, move on.
 
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Locogooner said:
so me and the girl were flirting before the summer holidays.

she said that i have a big ****, should be her bf and she fancies me

etc. but on the other hand we didn't really talk much more than that and she was flirting with this other guy who told me that she also wants sex from him.

summer holidays starts on monday.

should i chase her or if she's truly interested she'll contact me over the summer?
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It depends. Some girls just dont chase guys even if they like you alot.

If she said that about another guy the shes a slvt and probably not worh your time anyways.
 
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From my personal experience, younger chicks (8-22) LOVE to play games, they desire that special attention from men more than anything else. Some of them will not show the initiative no matter how much they like you.

Matured women (22+) most likely already had their share of fun in their younger days back in high school and college. They understand that their youth and beauty is now running on a clock and they are willing to be more aggresive and active to pursue men, play less games, be more ernest, etc.

It sounds like your girl is in the first category.
 
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TempestNight said:
From my personal experience, younger chicks (8-22) LOVE to play games, they desire that special attention from men more than anything else. Some of them will not show the initiative no matter how much they like you.

Matured women (22+) most likely already had their share of fun in their younger days back in high school and college. They understand that their youth and beauty is now running on a clock and they are willing to be more aggresive and active to pursue men, play less games, be more ernest, etc.

It sounds like your girl is in the first category.
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I tend to disagree a little. I think game playing for women probably extends into their mid twenties and they start thinking seriously at 26+ based on my experience.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It all depends on how interested she is and what the nature of the interest is. If it is above 50% she will contact you. If there is low interest- you are the one to create more attraction. The thing is that they all love attention and like when you chase them, but ideally they would love to have it the other way around. F it is clear that you are interested, the ball is in her court, because you can push only this far without appearing too eager.
 
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1 more thing

she just got out of a year long relationship 2 months ago
 
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TempestNight said:
From my personal experience, younger chicks (8-22) LOVE to play games, they desire that special attention from men more than anything else. Some of them will not show the initiative no matter how much they like you.

Matured women (22+) most likely already had their share of fun in their younger days back in high school and college. They understand that their youth and beauty is now running on a clock and they are willing to be more aggresive and active to pursue men, play less games, be more ernest, etc.

It sounds like your girl is in the first category.
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Damn tempest 8 year olds? I'm joking of course:)
 
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most women will not chase you even if they are attracted to you. if they are attracted to you they will def give you signals, but not necesarily chase you. its up to the man to initiate the interaction. this is how most westernized cultures women are brought up. they get the reputation of being a slut if they chase right off the bat. once you have initiated and attracted her she will become more succeptable to begin chasing you which in her mind is ok becasue at this point you both like each other. you should always initiate, and follow up, but use some form of descretion. you never want to over chase either. i like to use the 3 strikes rule, anything else similar is fine. keep in mind there are no rules in seduction only guidelines. if a woman is extremely attracted to you she will break all the rules.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ehh, guys

i'm not too sure now. I was just on facebook and i saw her talking with her ex she recently just added, again. She was talking about "last night" and stuff like that.

Not sure if she's worth pursuing anymore..
 
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