"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If she's interested will she contact YOU?

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so me and the girl were flirting before the summer holidays.

she said that i have a big ****, should be her bf and she fancies me

etc. but on the other hand we didn't really talk much more than that and she was flirting with this other guy who told me that she also wants sex from him.

summer holidays starts on monday.

should i chase her or if she's truly interested she'll contact me over the summer?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chase her. But to a point. Show her your unmistakably interested and then watch what she does. If it's nothing, move on.
 
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Locogooner said:
so me and the girl were flirting before the summer holidays.

she said that i have a big ****, should be her bf and she fancies me

etc. but on the other hand we didn't really talk much more than that and she was flirting with this other guy who told me that she also wants sex from him.

summer holidays starts on monday.

should i chase her or if she's truly interested she'll contact me over the summer?
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It depends. Some girls just dont chase guys even if they like you alot.

If she said that about another guy the shes a slvt and probably not worh your time anyways.
 
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From my personal experience, younger chicks (8-22) LOVE to play games, they desire that special attention from men more than anything else. Some of them will not show the initiative no matter how much they like you.

Matured women (22+) most likely already had their share of fun in their younger days back in high school and college. They understand that their youth and beauty is now running on a clock and they are willing to be more aggresive and active to pursue men, play less games, be more ernest, etc.

It sounds like your girl is in the first category.
 
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TempestNight said:
From my personal experience, younger chicks (8-22) LOVE to play games, they desire that special attention from men more than anything else. Some of them will not show the initiative no matter how much they like you.

Matured women (22+) most likely already had their share of fun in their younger days back in high school and college. They understand that their youth and beauty is now running on a clock and they are willing to be more aggresive and active to pursue men, play less games, be more ernest, etc.

It sounds like your girl is in the first category.
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I tend to disagree a little. I think game playing for women probably extends into their mid twenties and they start thinking seriously at 26+ based on my experience.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It all depends on how interested she is and what the nature of the interest is. If it is above 50% she will contact you. If there is low interest- you are the one to create more attraction. The thing is that they all love attention and like when you chase them, but ideally they would love to have it the other way around. F it is clear that you are interested, the ball is in her court, because you can push only this far without appearing too eager.
 
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1 more thing

she just got out of a year long relationship 2 months ago
 
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TempestNight said:
From my personal experience, younger chicks (8-22) LOVE to play games, they desire that special attention from men more than anything else. Some of them will not show the initiative no matter how much they like you.

Matured women (22+) most likely already had their share of fun in their younger days back in high school and college. They understand that their youth and beauty is now running on a clock and they are willing to be more aggresive and active to pursue men, play less games, be more ernest, etc.

It sounds like your girl is in the first category.
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Damn tempest 8 year olds? I'm joking of course:)
 
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most women will not chase you even if they are attracted to you. if they are attracted to you they will def give you signals, but not necesarily chase you. its up to the man to initiate the interaction. this is how most westernized cultures women are brought up. they get the reputation of being a slut if they chase right off the bat. once you have initiated and attracted her she will become more succeptable to begin chasing you which in her mind is ok becasue at this point you both like each other. you should always initiate, and follow up, but use some form of descretion. you never want to over chase either. i like to use the 3 strikes rule, anything else similar is fine. keep in mind there are no rules in seduction only guidelines. if a woman is extremely attracted to you she will break all the rules.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ehh, guys

i'm not too sure now. I was just on facebook and i saw her talking with her ex she recently just added, again. She was talking about "last night" and stuff like that.

Not sure if she's worth pursuing anymore..
 
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