"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If she still keeps your stuff

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Broke up but she still keep the stuff I bought her. Usually they give it back since they want to forget you. By keeping them does she not want to let go?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No, don't read anything into it.
She's happy to let go. It's just not your stuff anymore.
 

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I was in the same position. To be honest I don't think they give a sh1t. Women really don't give a sh1t once they've their lost attraction for you. I pretty much bet she's enjoying everything you bought her without you even crossing her sick twisted mind (and mine is doing the same). Fvck em....
 

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Man. Seriously. Don't over analyse it!

It is not a plan on her part. She's keeping it for whatever reason she wants to. There will be a point that she will get rid of every thing.

If you gave her clothing, you bet she's keeping it. She have already let go of you, so why would she get rid of that louis voutton!

Wake up man, there is nothing behind it. She is the dumper. You are the dumpee. You are hurt, not her. So do yourself a favour, get rid of everything she gave you. EVERYTHING. And move on.

That one is a goner!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girls will get present from any guy, some will buy her presents in hope to buy her, the dude can be hedious for her taste, but if he send her anything she likes she will take it and toss him as a "friend".

so don't read much on it, it does not matter, I hardly would guess she giving back a expensive gift just for a break up or something she liked in first place, if anything only reason for her to give back your presents was she didn't like it anyway, then she do it to hurt you.
 

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haha well then her hubby gotta look at that shiit i got for her. right in his face. she is sick puppy
 

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lol. i once lent a girl a dvd. b!tch never returned it despite going on about how many times she would return it. never did.

i didnt mind though because i would interpret this as her wanting to keep a connection between us. never liked that movie anyway.
 

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:-) said:
lol. i once lent a girl a dvd. b!tch never returned it despite going on about how many times she would return it. never did.

i didnt mind though because i would interpret this as her wanting to keep a connection between us. never liked that movie anyway.
agree...they usually wanna keep the connection..i threw all the stuff she gave me away..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lotus Effect said:
Burn it all!

Best thing you can do to get the poison out of your sistem
:up:
 

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Man she got my credit card and still spending on it... Wtf
 

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mikey2012 said:
Man she got my credit card and still spending on it... Wtf
wait... what? serious? well tehn time to send her to jail since she stole your credit card.
 

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mikey2012 said:
Man she got my credit card and still spending on it... Wtf
Man. Stop being a fool!

Block the damned sh*t already instead of posting about it in here.

What the f*ck are you waiting for? She buys Armani clothing for her new BF?


She must laugh so hard everytime she tries to use it and it is still working.
I know I would...

Don't be surprised if she buys more Louis Voutton!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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