"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If she still keeps your stuff
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Then it looks like it's a girl that hold grudges. I suggest moving to California.
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
It is not a plan on her part. She's keeping it for whatever reason she wants to. There will be a point that she will get rid of every thing.
If you gave her clothing, you bet she's keeping it. She have already let go of you, so why would she get rid of that louis voutton!
Wake up man, there is nothing behind it. She is the dumper. You are the dumpee. You are hurt, not her. So do yourself a favour, get rid of everything she gave you. EVERYTHING. And move on.
That one is a goner!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PlayHer Man
Banned
Spin plates.
so don't read much on it, it does not matter, I hardly would guess she giving back a expensive gift just for a break up or something she liked in first place, if anything only reason for her to give back your presents was she didn't like it anyway, then she do it to hurt you.
i didnt mind though because i would interpret this as her wanting to keep a connection between us. never liked that movie anyway.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
Best thing you can do to get the poison out of your sistem
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
Man. Stop being a fool!mikey2012 said:
Block the damned sh*t already instead of posting about it in here.
What the f*ck are you waiting for? She buys Armani clothing for her new BF?
She must laugh so hard everytime she tries to use it and it is still working.
I know I would...
Don't be surprised if she buys more Louis Voutton!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.