If she isn't shy, she isn't interested

[evansblue]

This is one of the biggest cues I look for when I'm talking to a girl. There's nothing more discouraging than a chick that isn't flustered by a confident guy with good mojo. There's always an exception, but the general rule of thumb is that if she's too comfortable around you, it's usually a bad sign and it means she isn't interested. Even if she's flirting.

I think it's something that a lot of guys miss and a big reason why they end up misinterpreting signals.

 

[PDubb75]

I disagree.

The last 4 girls I have hooked up with, only 1 could be categorized in the shy/flustered category. The other 3 wouldn't come close, in my mind. Maybe I just have a thing for more outgoing girls? I don't know, but your observations do not match mine.

 

[DonGorgon]

I disagree.

The last 4 girls I have hooked up with, only 1 could be categorized in the shy/flustered category. The other 3 wouldn't come close, in my mind. Maybe I just have a thing for more outgoing girls? I don't know, but your observations do not match mine.

true most women have had many many f partners and are not really shy at all.. there is no rule on judging if a woman will let you F her you have to try and combine skill with luck to get what you want..