"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If she isn't shy, she isn't interested

evansblue

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This is one of the biggest cues I look for when I'm talking to a girl. There's nothing more discouraging than a chick that isn't flustered by a confident guy with good mojo. There's always an exception, but the general rule of thumb is that if she's too comfortable around you, it's usually a bad sign and it means she isn't interested. Even if she's flirting.

I think it's something that a lot of guys miss and a big reason why they end up misinterpreting signals.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I disagree.

The last 4 girls I have hooked up with, only 1 could be categorized in the shy/flustered category. The other 3 wouldn't come close, in my mind. Maybe I just have a thing for more outgoing girls? I don't know, but your observations do not match mine.
 

DonGorgon

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PDubb75 said:
I disagree.

The last 4 girls I have hooked up with, only 1 could be categorized in the shy/flustered category. The other 3 wouldn't come close, in my mind. Maybe I just have a thing for more outgoing girls? I don't know, but your observations do not match mine.
true most women have had many many f partners and are not really shy at all.. there is no rule on judging if a woman will let you F her you have to try and combine skill with luck to get what you want..
 
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