"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If she isn't shy, she isn't interested

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evansblue

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This is one of the biggest cues I look for when I'm talking to a girl. There's nothing more discouraging than a chick that isn't flustered by a confident guy with good mojo. There's always an exception, but the general rule of thumb is that if she's too comfortable around you, it's usually a bad sign and it means she isn't interested. Even if she's flirting.

I think it's something that a lot of guys miss and a big reason why they end up misinterpreting signals.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I disagree.

The last 4 girls I have hooked up with, only 1 could be categorized in the shy/flustered category. The other 3 wouldn't come close, in my mind. Maybe I just have a thing for more outgoing girls? I don't know, but your observations do not match mine.
 
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PDubb75 said:
I disagree.

The last 4 girls I have hooked up with, only 1 could be categorized in the shy/flustered category. The other 3 wouldn't come close, in my mind. Maybe I just have a thing for more outgoing girls? I don't know, but your observations do not match mine.
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true most women have had many many f partners and are not really shy at all.. there is no rule on judging if a woman will let you F her you have to try and combine skill with luck to get what you want..
 
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