"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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If she is worth it and she is confident - she WILL make you wait!

Babnik

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So you are a DJ and you are confident and you have self improved and now enjoy life so much.

So, here is SHE...she works out, she helps around the house a lot, she has great manners, she does well in school, she is not a slut and will only have long-term relationships, and she is freaking CONFIDENT about the things she is just like YOU ARE.


So, what makes you think that if a girl makes you wait weeks and says "I never call guys, and if they want me, then need to do the running and waiting" then she is not worth it.

I seriously KNOW girls like that and damn...they are like I described PLUS many are talented in something.

Think about it...when YOU are as confident as she is, you think girls should run around YOU, but a girl can't do that to you because...you think women are naturally inferior to men or something?

Its like the whole forum is based around women who are EASY to get and no WORTHY women who knows she is worthy is EASY to get.

Then I see people say that to find someone special you need to go through many women...well yeah..if they were all EASY then it will take some time to find someone who is worthy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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styleman

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Do you have evidence of this? There is a girl which I really like, and she is just like this i.e. making me wait. We are good friends, hug, kiss on cheeks a lot, she says 'love you' in a girly way, but never any proper kissing, and def. no sex.
 

Babnik

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I take it back...just when I thought that after 6 months talking to a girl I found example of a girl who is REALLY worth so much (not to me, I am in a different country, but we met before and decided to keep in contact, I wanted to JBF with her) she spits out typical 17 year old US high school prince wish...FCUK...why do they have to be so...typical?!?!
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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Babnik said:
So you are a DJ and you are confident and you have self improved and now enjoy life so much.

So, here is SHE...she works out, she helps around the house a lot, she has great manners, she does well in school, she is not a slut and will only have long-term relationships, and she is freaking CONFIDENT about the things she is just like YOU ARE.


So, what makes you think that if a girl makes you wait weeks and says "I never call guys, and if they want me, then need to do the running and waiting" then she is not worth it.

I seriously KNOW girls like that and damn...they are like I described PLUS many are talented in something.

Think about it...when YOU are as confident as she is, you think girls should run around YOU, but a girl can't do that to you because...you think women are naturally inferior to men or something?

Its like the whole forum is based around women who are EASY to get and no WORTHY women who knows she is worthy is EASY to get.

Then I see people say that to find someone special you need to go through many women...well yeah..if they were all EASY then it will take some time to find someone who is worthy.

True in theory...but......once you get good at seducing then it becomes not so true. Much like a true high value prize male who is very picky with who he chooses. Still if you put HB 9 in front of him and she starts rubbing him and moaning and begging for him to f^ck her, then he will with NO other qualification. Just because his d^ck takes over and he becomes a cavemen.

Same is true for the true high value prize female. If a skilled seductionist isolates her and runs good game she will be defenseless.

This is something I've learned over the years. Going from not even getting a kiss on the first date to 100% f-closes (which I always deny to them:))

Not only does being good at seduction make her self-perceived value irrelevant, it also makes her dating rules, morals, and logic thoughts irrelevant. Just like a bigtitty HB 9 rubbing up on you makes all your non-sexual desires irrelevant.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dont forget, a "Quality woman" still gets horny like any other girl.

if you can get her feeling that way, she'll still jump your bones, given the opportunity...
 
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