"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If she is worth it and she is confident - she WILL make you wait!

Babnik

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So you are a DJ and you are confident and you have self improved and now enjoy life so much.

So, here is SHE...she works out, she helps around the house a lot, she has great manners, she does well in school, she is not a slut and will only have long-term relationships, and she is freaking CONFIDENT about the things she is just like YOU ARE.


So, what makes you think that if a girl makes you wait weeks and says "I never call guys, and if they want me, then need to do the running and waiting" then she is not worth it.

I seriously KNOW girls like that and damn...they are like I described PLUS many are talented in something.

Think about it...when YOU are as confident as she is, you think girls should run around YOU, but a girl can't do that to you because...you think women are naturally inferior to men or something?

Its like the whole forum is based around women who are EASY to get and no WORTHY women who knows she is worthy is EASY to get.

Then I see people say that to find someone special you need to go through many women...well yeah..if they were all EASY then it will take some time to find someone who is worthy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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styleman

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Do you have evidence of this? There is a girl which I really like, and she is just like this i.e. making me wait. We are good friends, hug, kiss on cheeks a lot, she says 'love you' in a girly way, but never any proper kissing, and def. no sex.
 

Babnik

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I take it back...just when I thought that after 6 months talking to a girl I found example of a girl who is REALLY worth so much (not to me, I am in a different country, but we met before and decided to keep in contact, I wanted to JBF with her) she spits out typical 17 year old US high school prince wish...FCUK...why do they have to be so...typical?!?!
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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Babnik said:
So you are a DJ and you are confident and you have self improved and now enjoy life so much.

So, here is SHE...she works out, she helps around the house a lot, she has great manners, she does well in school, she is not a slut and will only have long-term relationships, and she is freaking CONFIDENT about the things she is just like YOU ARE.


So, what makes you think that if a girl makes you wait weeks and says "I never call guys, and if they want me, then need to do the running and waiting" then she is not worth it.

I seriously KNOW girls like that and damn...they are like I described PLUS many are talented in something.

Think about it...when YOU are as confident as she is, you think girls should run around YOU, but a girl can't do that to you because...you think women are naturally inferior to men or something?

Its like the whole forum is based around women who are EASY to get and no WORTHY women who knows she is worthy is EASY to get.

Then I see people say that to find someone special you need to go through many women...well yeah..if they were all EASY then it will take some time to find someone who is worthy.

True in theory...but......once you get good at seducing then it becomes not so true. Much like a true high value prize male who is very picky with who he chooses. Still if you put HB 9 in front of him and she starts rubbing him and moaning and begging for him to f^ck her, then he will with NO other qualification. Just because his d^ck takes over and he becomes a cavemen.

Same is true for the true high value prize female. If a skilled seductionist isolates her and runs good game she will be defenseless.

This is something I've learned over the years. Going from not even getting a kiss on the first date to 100% f-closes (which I always deny to them:))

Not only does being good at seduction make her self-perceived value irrelevant, it also makes her dating rules, morals, and logic thoughts irrelevant. Just like a bigtitty HB 9 rubbing up on you makes all your non-sexual desires irrelevant.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dont forget, a "Quality woman" still gets horny like any other girl.

if you can get her feeling that way, she'll still jump your bones, given the opportunity...
 
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