If she is not going to reproduce, why be in a LTR with her?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Trump

Banned

Mar 24, 2018

Alot of men are concerned with finding the one, their soulmate, their one and only who can only "complete" them and make them happy.

But if you are not going to have a child with her, why do you guys want to be in a LTR? You can't meet anyone else when you are in a LTR.

My guess is we are lazy, when ONE girl is willing to have sex with us, we want to lock her down as fast as possible. We don't want to put ourselves out there and make ourselves vulnerable again and have other girls get to our insecurities; age, job, money, looks.

Just curious to hear other thoughts.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.