"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If she is not going to reproduce, why be in a LTR with her?

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Alot of men are concerned with finding the one, their soulmate, their one and only who can only "complete" them and make them happy.

But if you are not going to have a child with her, why do you guys want to be in a LTR? You can't meet anyone else when you are in a LTR.

My guess is we are lazy, when ONE girl is willing to have sex with us, we want to lock her down as fast as possible. We don't want to put ourselves out there and make ourselves vulnerable again and have other girls get to our insecurities; age, job, money, looks.

Just curious to hear other thoughts.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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