"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If she dont starts convs on msn does that
- Thread starter sbgm
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How many times has this happened?sbgm said:If she don't starts a convo on MSN, does this mean she do not like you?
EDIT: But if you starts a convo and she talks a lot does this mean she likes you?
If this happens every single time then there is a problem.
It sounds like she is playing feminist games. She doesn't want to seem weak or desperate. If she likes you then she is burning up inside over it and not being true to her nature as a woman. She might not like you either. So either way you might have a woman that is useless.
Your gut instincts are telling you that something is wrong. The fact is you are 100% correct. The question is what are you going to do about it?
Just ignore her for a while and that includes phone conversations as well. Don't call her don't msn her or email her. Give her the 1-2 week sting.
Do realize that good girls do start conversations with you.
Flirt with her, if she flirts back, that's a good indication she likes you. But better yet, ask her to hang out. If she accepts, then take that as a green light.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.