"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If she dont starts convs on msn does that

sbgm

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If she don't starts a convo on MSN, does this mean she do not like you?
:p

EDIT: But if you starts a convo and she talks a lot does this mean she likes you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Panda 2000

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The answer to both questions is no.
 

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There is no definitive way to see if a girl likes you. Just assume she does until you are told otherwise.
 

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Dont use MSN for a while. If she asks you why you havent been online then this shows that she might like you. Nothing definate though.
 

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sometimes i block my gf for a day and she cals my house and i tell ppl to say im not there. or i go out that way im really not there. its good to have her all worked up wondering where u r. if she does get worked up that means she likes you. so block her for 2 or 3 days and dont let her know where u are. like disappear. if she blows up ur cell or phone. then she likes you. remember. disappear (temporarily)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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00Kevin

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sbgm said:
If she don't starts a convo on MSN, does this mean she do not like you?
:p

EDIT: But if you starts a convo and she talks a lot does this mean she likes you?
How many times has this happened?

If this happens every single time then there is a problem.

It sounds like she is playing feminist games. She doesn't want to seem weak or desperate. If she likes you then she is burning up inside over it and not being true to her nature as a woman. She might not like you either. So either way you might have a woman that is useless.

Your gut instincts are telling you that something is wrong. The fact is you are 100% correct. The question is what are you going to do about it?

Just ignore her for a while and that includes phone conversations as well. Don't call her don't msn her or email her. Give her the 1-2 week sting.


Do realize that good girls do start conversations with you.
 

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mr_elor said:
Exactly.

Stop reading into it so much, it doesn't mean anything.

This I don't agree with. Trust your gut instincts , but use the force wisely.
 

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mr elor, is that because she just initiates contact a lot to you? i have this girl i im alot, if i go a few days without contacting her, she contacts me, and starts to im me alot again until i start iming her again.
 

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Wow, this analysing is a bad habit you need to break immediately!

Flirt with her, if she flirts back, that's a good indication she likes you. But better yet, ask her to hang out. If she accepts, then take that as a green light.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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