VikingKing
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I don't care about your rep.instantnoodles said:Thanks although I can't rep you lol
If you were not an emotionally charged individual who thinks with her feelings and vagina, you would be able to rep me.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't care about your rep.instantnoodles said:Thanks although I can't rep you lol
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Even betternoobolgy said:I don't care about your rep.
If you were not an emotionally charged individual who thinks with her feelings and vagina, you would be able to rep me.
Rep +1user name said:Yeah, keep telling yourself that. You might start believing it.
It doesn't matter if she does or doesn't cheat on you. Sooner or later (depending on how alpha or beta you are) YOU are going to start wondering whether she is or not. That little, insecure voice in your head will pop up and start whispering in your ear - 'She did it in the past, she'll do it again'. If you're Alpha you might not let this bother you, but if you are a beta, you are in a world of sh!t.
One day she doesn't respond to a text or comes home late is all it takes.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Everything is relative. I suppose be careful about getting emotionally involved.Peaks&Valleys said:Here's my thoughts on this.
How often are good looking quality women ever single?
If they're not married, they have a boyfriend. If they are single, it's usually not for very long. Right? I guess there's some exceptions, but every time I seem to meet someone, outside of the bars, they're in a relationship (or at least they tell me they are)
It's okay to be the cause of their breakup: she now likes you. But how often would she break up with her current boyfriend if she really hasn't "tested the waters" with you? Is she supposed to make the leap of faith? Or are you supposed to wait around until she happens to become single?
Sometimes their can just be a connection right? Or is that to Disney...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Wow. You wrote a post on another thread about sleeping with another guy's wife, and now you are writing a post about sleeping with another guy's girlfriend. It like you love stealing other guys' women. Ever hear the commandment, thou shalt not steal? You are a thief man.CrimsonPanther said:i will tell you a story.
i have a female friend who was married. she "fell in love" with another guy, and she cheated on her husband with him. the other guy had a GF also.
she left her husband for this guy, because he "proved himself" to her. i never asked details.
she is now divorced. the guy left her GF and they were together for a while. the girl now is in love again. with somebody else. that somebody just fvcks her now, and considers her a sextoy, and a little hor. she thinks this new guys loves her, and she is considering leaving her new boyfriend also for this guy. i know how this new guy feels about her because i am that guy.
draw your conclusions.
Wow thats some fvcked tup sh!tt bro lolXY. said:There is no need for discussion. Your chances of finding a woman that won't cheat are damn near zero.
Matter fact last night at work (I'm a cna) a lady came in to visit her grandmother. She looked young but was 28 petite and very stupid. I talked to her and she told me things about how her uncle liked her and how she was married for three years. She had to leave at some point so she made the call to some guy and told him to pick her up. Long story short I baited her to my car and got a blow job from her. I came. She swallowed. She gave me her fb name but I felt it in my bones that telling her my name is Trouble trouble trouble. I went back to work like nothing happened. She kissed her husbands mouth like nothing happened. Disgusting.
Stop Trying To Save These Hoes
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The most beautiful romantic story I have ever read!CrimsonPanther said:i will tell you a story.
i have a female friend who was married. she "fell in love" with another guy, and she cheated on her husband with him. the other guy had a GF also.
she left her husband for this guy, because he "proved himself" to her. i never asked details.
she is now divorced. the guy left her GF and they were together for a while. the girl now is in love again. with somebody else. that somebody just fvcks her now, and considers her a sextoy, and a little hor. she thinks this new guys loves her, and she is considering leaving her new boyfriend also for this guy. i know how this new guy feels about her because i am that guy.
draw your conclusions.