VikingKing
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I don't care about your rep.instantnoodles said:
If you were not an emotionally charged individual who thinks with her feelings and vagina, you would be able to rep me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If she cheated WITH you
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If you were not an emotionally charged individual who thinks with her feelings and vagina, you would be able to rep me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
instantnoodles
Don Juan
Even betternoobolgy said:
That was so easy :crackup:
Peaks&Valleys
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CrimsonPanther
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i will tell you a story.
i have a female friend who was married. she "fell in love" with another guy, and she cheated on her husband with him. the other guy had a GF also.
she left her husband for this guy, because he "proved himself" to her. i never asked details.
she is now divorced. the guy left her GF and they were together for a while. the girl now is in love again. with somebody else. that somebody just fvcks her now, and considers her a sextoy, and a little hor. she thinks this new guys loves her, and she is considering leaving her new boyfriend also for this guy. i know how this new guy feels about her because i am that guy.
draw your conclusions.
i have a female friend who was married. she "fell in love" with another guy, and she cheated on her husband with him. the other guy had a GF also.
she left her husband for this guy, because he "proved himself" to her. i never asked details.
she is now divorced. the guy left her GF and they were together for a while. the girl now is in love again. with somebody else. that somebody just fvcks her now, and considers her a sextoy, and a little hor. she thinks this new guys loves her, and she is considering leaving her new boyfriend also for this guy. i know how this new guy feels about her because i am that guy.
draw your conclusions.
hmm this made me think about my situation haha.
long story short, a girl whose older than me left her man of 7-8 years for me.
At first all the guys at work wanted her, the competitive in me wanted to get
her. I got her and we have been together for 2 years now. Yes, it has cross my, what if she does the same to me? I dont believe in that stuff. Its all about attitude whether a girl will do the same or not. Thats just me.
long story short, a girl whose older than me left her man of 7-8 years for me.
At first all the guys at work wanted her, the competitive in me wanted to get
her. I got her and we have been together for 2 years now. Yes, it has cross my, what if she does the same to me? I dont believe in that stuff. Its all about attitude whether a girl will do the same or not. Thats just me.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
There is no need for discussion. Your chances of finding a woman that won't cheat are damn near zero.
Matter fact last night at work (I'm a cna) a lady came in to visit her grandmother. She looked young but was 28 petite and very stupid. I talked to her and she told me things about how her uncle liked her and how she was married for three years. She had to leave at some point so she made the call to some guy and told him to pick her up. Long story short I baited her to my car and got a blow job from her. I came. She swallowed. She gave me her fb name but I felt it in my bones that telling her my name is Trouble trouble trouble. I went back to work like nothing happened. She kissed her husbands mouth like nothing happened. Disgusting.
Stop Trying To Save These Hoes
Matter fact last night at work (I'm a cna) a lady came in to visit her grandmother. She looked young but was 28 petite and very stupid. I talked to her and she told me things about how her uncle liked her and how she was married for three years. She had to leave at some point so she made the call to some guy and told him to pick her up. Long story short I baited her to my car and got a blow job from her. I came. She swallowed. She gave me her fb name but I felt it in my bones that telling her my name is Trouble trouble trouble. I went back to work like nothing happened. She kissed her husbands mouth like nothing happened. Disgusting.
Stop Trying To Save These Hoes
Peaks&Valleys
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Here's my thoughts on this.
How often are good looking quality women ever single?
If they're not married, they have a boyfriend. If they are single, it's usually not for very long. Right? I guess there's some exceptions, but every time I seem to meet someone, outside of the bars, they're in a relationship (or at least they tell me they are )
It's okay to be the cause of their breakup: she now likes you. But how often would she break up with her current boyfriend if she really hasn't "tested the waters" with you? Is she supposed to make the leap of faith? Or are you supposed to wait around until she happens to become single?
Sometimes their can just be a connection right? Or is that to Disney...
How often are good looking quality women ever single?
If they're not married, they have a boyfriend. If they are single, it's usually not for very long. Right? I guess there's some exceptions, but every time I seem to meet someone, outside of the bars, they're in a relationship (or at least they tell me they are
) It's okay to be the cause of their breakup: she now likes you. But how often would she break up with her current boyfriend if she really hasn't "tested the waters" with you? Is she supposed to make the leap of faith? Or are you supposed to wait around until she happens to become single?
Sometimes their can just be a connection right? Or is that to Disney...
VikingKing
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Everything is relative. I suppose be careful about getting emotionally involved.Peaks&Valleys said:Here's my thoughts on this.
How often are good looking quality women ever single?
If they're not married, they have a boyfriend. If they are single, it's usually not for very long. Right? I guess there's some exceptions, but every time I seem to meet someone, outside of the bars, they're in a relationship (or at least they tell me they are
It's okay to be the cause of their breakup: she now likes you. But how often would she break up with her current boyfriend if she really hasn't "tested the waters" with you? Is she supposed to make the leap of faith? Or are you supposed to wait around until she happens to become single?
Sometimes their can just be a connection right? Or is that to Disney...
Maximus Rex
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You cain't turn a hoe into a housewife. -Old Pimpin' Proverb
devilkingx2
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the idea is that if she cheats on her BF she fundamentally views BFs and fiances and husbands as replaceable things that can be thrown away once something better comes along as opposed to short, medium or long term commitments
and therefor, she'll cheat on you whenever she THINKS(she would cheat on you with an alpha who never calls her again, a loser pretending to be/lying about being an alpha/millionaire, etc. in addition to a schmuck like you who would actually stick around) she's getting a better deal, with no regard to the commitment she made to you.
the exception would be if she legitimately feels deeply guilty and torn up about cheating on her last man
a good barometer is how long it took and how in her right mind she was when it happened
AKA, if it took like an hour to bang a sober chick with a BF, she has no morals and will cheat on you just the same
if it took like 6 months to bang the girl but only after she was super super drunk and emotionally distraught about something, then that's different.
and therefor, she'll cheat on you whenever she THINKS(she would cheat on you with an alpha who never calls her again, a loser pretending to be/lying about being an alpha/millionaire, etc. in addition to a schmuck like you who would actually stick around) she's getting a better deal, with no regard to the commitment she made to you.
the exception would be if she legitimately feels deeply guilty and torn up about cheating on her last man
a good barometer is how long it took and how in her right mind she was when it happened
AKA, if it took like an hour to bang a sober chick with a BF, she has no morals and will cheat on you just the same
if it took like 6 months to bang the girl but only after she was super super drunk and emotionally distraught about something, then that's different.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
All women have the capability to cheat if the right guy comes along. Think about that. Even if they haven't cheated before in the past, doesn't mean they won't cheat ever. It just depends on which sort of guy shows up.
This isn't anything about morals or integrity , it's just human nature.
You aren't safe with ANY women.
I have been cheated on and have also had a woman who cheated on her boyfriend.
If you get serious with a woman and don't expect to be cheated on then that's wishful thinking.
Only way around it is to be single and have FB. That way even if they cheat on you, it's not really cheating.
This isn't anything about morals or integrity , it's just human nature.
You aren't safe with ANY women.
I have been cheated on and have also had a woman who cheated on her boyfriend.
If you get serious with a woman and don't expect to be cheated on then that's wishful thinking.
Only way around it is to be single and have FB. That way even if they cheat on you, it's not really cheating.
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Wow. You wrote a post on another thread about sleeping with another guy's wife, and now you are writing a post about sleeping with another guy's girlfriend. It like you love stealing other guys' women. Ever hear the commandment, thou shalt not steal? You are a thief man.CrimsonPanther said:
I wouldn't deal with a woman who is divorced because I view them as still married in God's eyes and any interaction with them is adultery. You should repent because you are going to split hell wide open. You need to get right with God.
Now, I don't why I don't say this to other DJ's, because everyone one is a sinner. But this....you need Jesus dude.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
If she's good at her craft, you'll never know how many guys she's banging. Is she still a cheater? And if so, how would you know?
BustedKnucks
Don Juan
If she cheated on her ex with you, you're probably gonna get herpes when you date her.
Jair213
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Wow thats some fvcked tup sh!tt bro lolXY. said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lotus Effect
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The most beautiful romantic story I have ever read!CrimsonPanther said:
Congratulations Man! Rep +1
And on a side note, everyone, not a single soul in this world, will eventually cheat, because of the sex drive man have, and because the amount of chumps (me included) out there pedastalizing their Oh so precious lady!
If you are with a girl, and you assume she never cheated on anyone, you are being naive!