If she cheated WITH you

[iamnobody]

Most sosuavers will dismiss a chick who’s cheating on her boyfriend with you as a bad prospect. However, there’s are two things most guys fail to see in this dynamic:

1. she cheated on her boyfriend because he’s a beta and you are more alpha than him. Can you automatically assume she will cheat on you? Not necessarily, unless you go AFC later on.

2. By assuming a chick like this is a bad investment you automatically assume that you and the boyfriend have the same ammount of game. The perversion of this is that it’s a self furfilling profecy. Think beta will turn you into a beta.

The sane approach should be to keep your eyes open for potential red flags, but don’t write her off as GF material just because she cheated with you.

Disclaimer: I'm not talking about bishes who have 3 d1cks inside them every day.

 

[user name]

Yeah, keep telling yourself that. You might start believing it.

It doesn't matter if she does or doesn't cheat on you. Sooner or later (depending on how alpha or beta you are) YOU are going to start wondering whether she is or not. That little, insecure voice in your head will pop up and start whispering in your ear - 'She did it in the past, she'll do it again'. If you're Alpha you might not let this bother you, but if you are a beta, you are in a world of sh!t.

One day she doesn't respond to a text or comes home late is all it takes.

 

[iamnobody]

It doesn't matter if she does or doesn't cheat on you.

I said cheating WITH YOU, mate.

You'd think you could add something constructive to this forum one of these days.
What I'm saying makes sense if you have the patience to read it.

 

[user name]

I said cheating WITH YOU, mate.

You'd think you could add something constructive to this forum one of these days.
What I'm saying makes sense if you have the patience to read it.

I know what you said mate.

And I replied:

it doesn't matter whether she does cheat on you or not (at a later stage). You're telling us not to write a cheater off aren't you?

I'm asking why you would put yourself in that position in the first place. but we both know why, don't we? you've fallen in love with a cheater. and you have the audacity to call the one she cheated on a beta!

 

[adam225]

And that's what he replied to....

 

[Ruthless]

Marry a cheater and at some point in your life you'll be able to kiss your wife and tell the world how my d!ck tastes. Don't do it.

 

[Bokanovsky]

1. she cheated on her boyfriend because he’s a beta and you are more alpha than him. Can you automatically assume she will cheat on you? Not necessarily, unless you go AFC later on.

It's a fundamental fallacy to assume that women only cheat if you're not alpha enough. I am personally aware of situations where women cheated with men who were definitely less alpha than their BF's.

 

[instantnoodles]

STD's. :woo:

Never want a cheater in my life. Always be cautious with someone who accuses you of cheating. Possible red flag.

It's alright to have the occasional suspicion, as not everyone is 100% confident. But continual accusations even over a long period of time becomes a red-flag.

Also, in giving out reassurance is perfectly fine but there's a line to cross.

 

[iamnobody]

I'm asking why you would put yourself in that position in the first place. but we both know why, don't we? you've fallen in love with a cheater. and you have the audacity to call the one she cheated on a beta!

Dude... this is not about me. It a neutral issue. You must really be heavily projecting your stuff on other people if you pop with these conclusion. I'm really sorry for you.

However what I meant is this: if you fvck somebody's gf and then expect her to cheat on you, you already lost frame. See the above self fulfilling prophecy part.

 

[iamnobody]

It's a fundamental fallacy to assume that women only cheat if you're not alpha enough. I am personally aware of situations where women cheated with men who were definitely less alpha than their BF's.

I agree with you. Chicks will cheat on their alpha bfs with chumps out of resentment, but the most common scenario is chicks cheat with somebody more attractive (aka, alpha, dominant, etc) than their bf.

 

[VikingKing]

Well I stole my ex from her beta chinese ex. She never slept with me untill I made her officially break up with her ex.

Man if she cheats with you, that shows what kind of person she is. Women begin to dislike, or despise, or take for place low value on things that become familiar.

Once she gets bored with you, what do you think shes going to do?

Keep her as a fb, and keep finding other chicks.

Once a female cheats on any one, It increases her chances to do it again.

 

[user name]

Dude... this is not about me. It a neutral issue. You must really be heavily projecting your stuff on other people if you pop with these conclusion. I'm really sorry for you.

However what I meant is this: if you fvck somebody's gf and then expect her to cheat on you, you already lost frame. See the above self fulfilling prophecy part.

Not really. If you fvck somebody's gfriend and DON'T expect her to cheat on you then you're an idiot.

It's like saying 'Not all crocodiles will tear you limb from limb and eat you if you approach them,' which is true. But considering their nature, why take that chance?

 

[TheException]

Chicks will cheat on their alpha bfs with chumps out of resentment, but the most common scenario is chicks cheat with somebody more attractive (aka, alpha, dominant, etc) than their bf.

Bingo.....and resentment is a lot harder to create in a woman than you think. Cheating on alphas is a rare event, which is why your time is better spent focusing on yourself than on your girlfriends behavior.

You flirting with girls > You telling your girlfriend to stop flirting with some guy

You working long hours on a project > You telling your girlfriend to stop texting some guy

Your actions give her more "dread" than a command. Savy?

 

[apprenticedj]

I don't play accessory to cheating EVER but if I did I wouldn't make a gf/wife out of a cheating skeezer. I know the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" is vague but I think it does have some merit. Besides who needs the drama? There are soooooo many single women out there that you don't need to dabble with someone of such low class. I've never done it but I have friends that have, invaribly there's always some fallout, whether it be boyfriend/husband finding out and going balistic or the chick catching feelings and wanting to leave her relationship and start over etc. But maybe I'm crazy for trying to be a Don Juan with some integrity LOL! :crackup:

 

[instantnoodles]

I don't play accessory to cheating EVER but if I did I wouldn't make a gf/wife out of a cheating skeezer. I know the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" is vague but I think it does have some merit. Besides who needs the drama? There are soooooo many single women out there that you don't need to dabble with someone of such low class. I've never done it but I have friends that have, invaribly there's always some fallout, whether it be boyfriend/husband finding out and going balistic or the chick catching feelings and wanting to leave her relationship and start over etc. But maybe I'm crazy for trying to be a Don Juan with some integrity LOL! :crackup:

Like they say...



Cheater cheater! ___ EATER! :crackup:

 

[JohnChops]

if she cheats on her bf with anybody she will do the same to you. cased close. only bang her, never date a girl like that. case closed. nismo i stole your line.

 

[Renegade357]

Get with a girl that has integrity.

 

[instantnoodles]

Guys, I have a question. What about if someone has ever been cheated on? Would that affect loyality/faithfulness in any way or not?

Just wondering I know someone that has been cheated on a lot

 

[VikingKing]

Guys, I have a question. What about if someone has ever been cheated on? Would that affect loyality/faithfulness in any way or not?

Just wondering I know someone that has been cheated on a lot

If some on cheats on you, you can't control that.

So to answer your question, being cheated on doesn't mean you will cheat, but people who have been cheated on could still cheat on others.

 

[instantnoodles]

If some on cheats on you, you can't control that.

So to answer your question, being cheated on doesn't mean you will cheat, but people who have been cheated on could still cheat on others.

Thanks although I can't rep you lol