Blue Phoenix
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It´s funny cause they get p!ssed when you don´t wanna listen to her problems.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dannyegg4575
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Listening to her problems is a bad idea. A woman with high interest in you normally won't tell you her problems. She would go through her friends or her emotional tampon "guy" friends because she wants only positive energy in your relationship with her. my guess...Blue Phoenix said:It´s funny cause they get p!ssed when you don´t wanna listen to her problems.
This is one of those transitions you naturally go through. Previously you may have just stood there listening to her problems (which you never enjoyed anyway)---then one day she's going on about her girlie troubles and you're thinking "I have no interest in her problems or standing here listening to them--this sucks--change subject".
Change the subject. Let her "boy" "friends" handle her problems/ego. All the while she's whining to THEM, she'll be thinking of you and why you never put up with her whining.
Change the subject. Let her "boy" "friends" handle her problems/ego. All the while she's whining to THEM, she'll be thinking of you and why you never put up with her whining.
Blue Phoenix
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What´s worst is that they don´t either want help. They just want you to listen to her whining.
It´s funny, I told the girl I was involved "if the only reason you call me is to talk about your problems then I don´t want to talk to you anymore". Then she said "but this builds intimacy!!".
*What a croc of sh!t.
It´s funny, I told the girl I was involved "if the only reason you call me is to talk about your problems then I don´t want to talk to you anymore". Then she said "but this builds intimacy!!".
*What a croc of sh!t.
dannyegg4575
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You can never 100% trust a woman and what she says. Intimacy my :moon: . Go tell her when she is able to buy you your new xbox, that's intimacy.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Blue Phoenix
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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:dannyegg4575 said:You can never 100% trust a woman and what she says. Intimacy my :moon: . Go tell her when she is able to buy you your new xbox, that's intimacy.
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When women call me to BS i get very lude and sexually graphic with them...