Blue Phoenix
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It´s funny cause they get p!ssed when you don´t wanna listen to her problems.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dannyegg4575
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Listening to her problems is a bad idea. A woman with high interest in you normally won't tell you her problems. She would go through her friends or her emotional tampon "guy" friends because she wants only positive energy in your relationship with her. my guess...Blue Phoenix said:It´s funny cause they get p!ssed when you don´t wanna listen to her problems.
This is one of those transitions you naturally go through. Previously you may have just stood there listening to her problems (which you never enjoyed anyway)---then one day she's going on about her girlie troubles and you're thinking "I have no interest in her problems or standing here listening to them--this sucks--change subject".
Change the subject. Let her "boy" "friends" handle her problems/ego. All the while she's whining to THEM, she'll be thinking of you and why you never put up with her whining.
Change the subject. Let her "boy" "friends" handle her problems/ego. All the while she's whining to THEM, she'll be thinking of you and why you never put up with her whining.
Blue Phoenix
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What´s worst is that they don´t either want help. They just want you to listen to her whining.
It´s funny, I told the girl I was involved "if the only reason you call me is to talk about your problems then I don´t want to talk to you anymore". Then she said "but this builds intimacy!!".
*What a croc of sh!t.
It´s funny, I told the girl I was involved "if the only reason you call me is to talk about your problems then I don´t want to talk to you anymore". Then she said "but this builds intimacy!!".
*What a croc of sh!t.
dannyegg4575
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You can never 100% trust a woman and what she says. Intimacy my :moon: . Go tell her when she is able to buy you your new xbox, that's intimacy.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Blue Phoenix
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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:dannyegg4575 said:You can never 100% trust a woman and what she says. Intimacy my :moon: . Go tell her when she is able to buy you your new xbox, that's intimacy.
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When women call me to BS i get very lude and sexually graphic with them...