"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If she asks you if you like her....
- Thread starter Apostate
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That is the truth.
Then she will fall madly in love with you.
It is the same way with this one girl that I know, except sadly, I am not that guy, well not yet. But he said he used to like her, and all the attraction and rules came into play, and now she loves him.
I will have to work on that situation.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Youre a cool kid. :rockon:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Her: Do you like me?
You: Maybe
Her: Do you like me?
You: Now, why would you ask me that?!
Her: Do you like me?
You: Figure it out! I'm not just going to tell you.
Her: Do you like me?
You: I don't know.
Her: Do you like me?
You: I think I......(then like a payphone that has cut off say)*please insert 25$ for the rest of the message*
Her: *gives you 25$*
You: Ahh man, the message has been erased, anyways, figure out for yourself.
Her: Do you like me?
You: *shrugs shoulders* possibly.
The point is to make her want more.