"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If she asks you if you like her....

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Zod

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Don't give her a definite answer. A maybe works well, or change the subject to her and ask if she likes you.

Oh and search function.
 

arutha

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'In your dreams darling' (grin)

'Haha, you wish' (grin)

'Why are you asking insecure questions like that?'

The first two are probably better..
 

08aisaac

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If you met her a few years ago, say that you used to like her.

That is the truth.

Then she will fall madly in love with you.

It is the same way with this one girl that I know, except sadly, I am not that guy, well not yet. But he said he used to like her, and all the attraction and rules came into play, and now she loves him.

I will have to work on that situation.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
If you met her a few years ago, say that you used to like her.

That is the truth.

Then she will fall madly in love with you.

It is the same way with this one girl that I know, except sadly, I am not that guy, well not yet. But he said he used to like her, and all the attraction and rules came into play, and now she loves him.

I will have to work on that situation.
Youre a cool kid. :rockon:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJ4Real

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A maybe is good. Here are some examples

Her: Do you like me?
You: Maybe:cool:

Her: Do you like me?
You: Now, why would you ask me that?!

Her: Do you like me?
You: Figure it out! I'm not just going to tell you.

Her: Do you like me?
You: I don't know.:cool:

Her: Do you like me?
You: I think I......(then like a payphone that has cut off say)*please insert 25$ for the rest of the message*
Her: *gives you 25$*
You: Ahh man, the message has been erased, anyways, figure out for yourself.

Her: Do you like me?
You: *shrugs shoulders* possibly.

The point is to make her want more. :cool:
 
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