If pick-up artists make a woman fall in love with them, what happens to her after?

[The_Reaper]

I read about Pick-up guys, like Senor Fingers, David deAngelo, Mystery, et al and they seem to be sleeping with a endless amount of women, and then just forgetting about them - they're like a puff of smoke, gone.

How come we don't hear about these women getting attached, bitter and angry, "****blocking", getting depressed because they can't be with this amazing guy, refusing to accept a break-up etc?

It's like the PUAs screw women and discard them cleanly, no problems. Maybe they have a skilful method of breaking up/nexting a girl, with minimal feelings hurt on the girl's part?

I am no pick-up artist but I'm not a total retard, and when I "bond" with women they sometimes get very attached (no boaster) and usually end up getting hurt!

I'm obviously doing something wrong, and I need to project a different attitude. But still, my main question is this:

If the pick-up artists can make a girl fall deeply in love with them, how do these girls accept a breakup, or accept being a casual partner, or forgotten about? Does it not cause them pain and bitterness?

David deAngelo wrote about how an ex-gf of his casually came to his house once, and they chatted casually, and all was fine, blah blah.

My exes could not be in the same room as me, the "atmosphere" would be too messed up! Exes are like forbidden people, no longer possible to communicate with.

 

[KontrollerX]

I think the point of PUA is just to get a series of one night stands.

When its clear that this is what both parties are after it makes sense to me we don't hear about any of their scorned women.

 

[The_Reaper]

I think the point of PUA is just to get a series of one night stands.

When its clear that this is what both parties are after it makes sense to me we don't hear about any of their scorned women.

I may have used the wrong word: PUA. Maybe I should have said Don Juan or Alpha Male, or whatever label.

If you mean that the whole ethos of this site is to get a series of one-night stands, that's obviously untrue. But I think you were referring specifically to a PUA; I was not.

 

[Someone Much cooler]

yep and aids. one night of fun a life time(limited) of problems

 

[comic_relief]

I don't usually have a problem with my exes. They usually chat with me all the time.

It only becomes a problem when they don't accept that it is over. I haven't had a problem with girls that I have slept with.

I also treat them as a friend even after I have slept with them.

comic_relief

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I have this problem ALOT. Girls tend to fall head over heals once they get to know me and screw me.

I'm still trying to understand the exact problem. Unless you mislead these women, what's the problem?

 

[Adrian]

I try to see my f-buddies every once in a blue moon for that reason. After several months many of them begin to have feelings for you especially if you're fvcking them really good. I guess Mystery and these other PUA's you mention disappear after one night therefore making things a lot easier.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Don't confuse "sex" with a relationship! Virgins don't have this problem!

 

[Sean Stock]

Sex after a long period of getting to know each other and sex after one or two days are entirely different. That´s the only real difference.