"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If only I could get a girl like this
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No, she couldn't. She is so far out there that she doesn't even grasp the reality most of us live in. You need some sort of connection to be thought of as funny. It's what a lot of comedians do: they either create a sort of "yeah right? I get that too" moment or do something completely opposite of what you'd expect. She however does not live in the same reality. No connection, no humor.Groovy said:
Dude... This sounds like one of those riddles - where it ends with, "...what am I?" It sounds like a pig to me! I doubt she would rather "veg" on the couch. Unless by veg she means "eat excessive junk food".San Jose California said:
She's basically a crazy, depressed, fat, lazy slob who doesn't take care of her appearance, health, or hygiene; and likes to roll around in the mud and not shower. I bet she expects people to accept her for "who she is" - as she complains non-stop about how unfair her fat life is. I hate fat, loser, depressed women. They shouldn't be allowed to complain at all. But they do, and feel entitled on top of it - as they date loser after loser (being that like attracts like, and all). I believe it also lists her as an occassional smoker. So, she smells like ass, pancakes, animals, doritos, and smoke. Why is she allowed to have ANY standards?
Also agree with the comment about her complaining about being used for sex. That's why PoF is so hopeless. Everyone is desperate and has no standards, so they start to develop egos and think they're special when loser men hit on them. "Oh, I'm so hot" says lardy #97. Bad news all around. Avoid. Delete. Abort.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dawg, weren't you the dude who beat up some random guy cuz he damaged your ego by insulting you? Now you made a post that is 100% an insult. I mean, I challenge people to carefully, meticulously analyze it... and find.... ONE thing of value in there. There is NOTHING.Yo'Mama said:
