"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If only I could get a girl like this
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No, she couldn't. She is so far out there that she doesn't even grasp the reality most of us live in. You need some sort of connection to be thought of as funny. It's what a lot of comedians do: they either create a sort of "yeah right? I get that too" moment or do something completely opposite of what you'd expect. She however does not live in the same reality. No connection, no humor.Groovy said:
Dude... This sounds like one of those riddles - where it ends with, "...what am I?" It sounds like a pig to me! I doubt she would rather "veg" on the couch. Unless by veg she means "eat excessive junk food".San Jose California said:
She's basically a crazy, depressed, fat, lazy slob who doesn't take care of her appearance, health, or hygiene; and likes to roll around in the mud and not shower. I bet she expects people to accept her for "who she is" - as she complains non-stop about how unfair her fat life is. I hate fat, loser, depressed women. They shouldn't be allowed to complain at all. But they do, and feel entitled on top of it - as they date loser after loser (being that like attracts like, and all). I believe it also lists her as an occassional smoker. So, she smells like ass, pancakes, animals, doritos, and smoke. Why is she allowed to have ANY standards?
Also agree with the comment about her complaining about being used for sex. That's why PoF is so hopeless. Everyone is desperate and has no standards, so they start to develop egos and think they're special when loser men hit on them. "Oh, I'm so hot" says lardy #97. Bad news all around. Avoid. Delete. Abort.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dawg, weren't you the dude who beat up some random guy cuz he damaged your ego by insulting you? Now you made a post that is 100% an insult. I mean, I challenge people to carefully, meticulously analyze it... and find.... ONE thing of value in there. There is NOTHING.Yo'Mama said:
