"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If masturbation is supposed to lower testosterone...

DJVladdy

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I did an experiment today.
I wacked off finished just like a mans supposed to.
Washed my hands and began working out.
My workout was not affected at all my jerking off. My energy was high, I could still lift heavy and was perfectly fine. Actually had a really good workout. Makes me wonder about what people write about the subject.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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aussiegoat55

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There's been quite a discussion about masturbation, and testosterone levels.

I've read some more scientific posts here at sosuave that find masturbation does not significantly lower testosterone levels, but when done excessively, i.e., everyday, multiple times a day, those frequencies lower testosterone levels, sperm count, and any sexual pressure building within you that would compel you to chase that tail.

Masturbation is normal and healthy, but if done too much, you can create a self image of being desperate. It's the easy way out of "getting some" than going out Friday night and actually getting some.
 

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yeah, if you do it after several days of abstinence, I think it can make you feel better than you would if you didn't masturbate
 

B4IFURU18?

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So if you're having daily sex, you're essentially lowering your testosterone too? I don't buy this theory, I don't see how it's even possible...

Also, if you're worried that masturbating will lower your testosterone levels, you're a ****ing head case and need to get slapped in the face.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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B4IFURU18?

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Masturbation is normal and healthy, but if done too much, you can create a self image of being desperate. It's the easy way out of "getting some" than going out Friday night and actually getting some.
Who's gonna know? I don't tell anyone about the frequency of my masturbation. It certainly hasn't limited my game, and kept me inside on Friday nights...
 

DJVladdy

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IDK B4,

Alot of people said that and i think some studies were done ill post a link later today. And yes, obviously same thing with sex cuz ur subconscious mind and body cant tell the difference.
 

War Against Betaism

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DJVladdy said:
IDK B4,

Alot of people said that and i think some studies were done ill post a link later today. And yes, obviously same thing with sex cuz ur subconscious mind and body cant tell the difference.
Does this apply also when you're multi orgasmic?
 
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