"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If masturbation is supposed to lower testosterone...

DJVladdy

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I did an experiment today.
I wacked off finished just like a mans supposed to.
Washed my hands and began working out.
My workout was not affected at all my jerking off. My energy was high, I could still lift heavy and was perfectly fine. Actually had a really good workout. Makes me wonder about what people write about the subject.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There's been quite a discussion about masturbation, and testosterone levels.

I've read some more scientific posts here at sosuave that find masturbation does not significantly lower testosterone levels, but when done excessively, i.e., everyday, multiple times a day, those frequencies lower testosterone levels, sperm count, and any sexual pressure building within you that would compel you to chase that tail.

Masturbation is normal and healthy, but if done too much, you can create a self image of being desperate. It's the easy way out of "getting some" than going out Friday night and actually getting some.
 

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yeah, if you do it after several days of abstinence, I think it can make you feel better than you would if you didn't masturbate
 

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So if you're having daily sex, you're essentially lowering your testosterone too? I don't buy this theory, I don't see how it's even possible...

Also, if you're worried that masturbating will lower your testosterone levels, you're a ****ing head case and need to get slapped in the face.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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B4IFURU18?

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Masturbation is normal and healthy, but if done too much, you can create a self image of being desperate. It's the easy way out of "getting some" than going out Friday night and actually getting some.
Who's gonna know? I don't tell anyone about the frequency of my masturbation. It certainly hasn't limited my game, and kept me inside on Friday nights...
 

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IDK B4,

Alot of people said that and i think some studies were done ill post a link later today. And yes, obviously same thing with sex cuz ur subconscious mind and body cant tell the difference.
 

War Against Betaism

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DJVladdy said:
IDK B4,

Alot of people said that and i think some studies were done ill post a link later today. And yes, obviously same thing with sex cuz ur subconscious mind and body cant tell the difference.
Does this apply also when you're multi orgasmic?
 
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