"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If masturbation is supposed to lower testosterone...

DJVladdy

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I did an experiment today.
I wacked off finished just like a mans supposed to.
Washed my hands and began working out.
My workout was not affected at all my jerking off. My energy was high, I could still lift heavy and was perfectly fine. Actually had a really good workout. Makes me wonder about what people write about the subject.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There's been quite a discussion about masturbation, and testosterone levels.

I've read some more scientific posts here at sosuave that find masturbation does not significantly lower testosterone levels, but when done excessively, i.e., everyday, multiple times a day, those frequencies lower testosterone levels, sperm count, and any sexual pressure building within you that would compel you to chase that tail.

Masturbation is normal and healthy, but if done too much, you can create a self image of being desperate. It's the easy way out of "getting some" than going out Friday night and actually getting some.
 

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yeah, if you do it after several days of abstinence, I think it can make you feel better than you would if you didn't masturbate
 

B4IFURU18?

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So if you're having daily sex, you're essentially lowering your testosterone too? I don't buy this theory, I don't see how it's even possible...

Also, if you're worried that masturbating will lower your testosterone levels, you're a ****ing head case and need to get slapped in the face.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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B4IFURU18?

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Masturbation is normal and healthy, but if done too much, you can create a self image of being desperate. It's the easy way out of "getting some" than going out Friday night and actually getting some.
Who's gonna know? I don't tell anyone about the frequency of my masturbation. It certainly hasn't limited my game, and kept me inside on Friday nights...
 

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IDK B4,

Alot of people said that and i think some studies were done ill post a link later today. And yes, obviously same thing with sex cuz ur subconscious mind and body cant tell the difference.
 

War Against Betaism

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DJVladdy said:
IDK B4,

Alot of people said that and i think some studies were done ill post a link later today. And yes, obviously same thing with sex cuz ur subconscious mind and body cant tell the difference.
Does this apply also when you're multi orgasmic?
 
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