"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If looks aren't key...

Luveno

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Fat is ugly

After doing work on cadavers, I have gained knowledge that has made me vehemently opposed to being fat.

When you are fat, not only your outside, but your inside, is ugly. Mounds of yellow pulsating fat layer the muscles of your abdomen to the point where you cant see anything there but a big yellow draping pile of goo. Because of the fat, the heart has to work harder, and your valves become hard as a rock and dont pump right....this causes your heart to grow really large and become ugly. Fat is generally ugly. I would never date a fat girl, and if my girl got fat Id drop her. I expect the same opinion from
girls..

Your soul only really counts in the long term. Remember that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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david90

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Looks does matter. Study says that looks is important to women as it is to men (google it you slacker :)).

I consider myself to be a little below average in the looks department but its cool though cuz I know that for every 10 women I approach, at least one gonna think i'm a hottie. It might be a little low but I do have other great qualities.

So for those who aren't blessed in the looks department, "high approach numbers" is your friend.
 

LuisGarcia10

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Don't be merto with it though.If your dressing up to go to shcool or the bank then you got issues.
Not at all, there's nothing wrong with looking your best all the time.

People will respect you for having pride in the way you look, especially with some the the sweaty, messy kids that attend my College.

It makes you stand out if you get into class, sit down with nice smelly after-shave, clean hair and you're well dressed.

I always try to look my best, I didn't used to and I used people used to laugh at me for it.

Now I carry round hair gel, deodrant etc and make sure I'm always looking and smelling as good as possible, as long as you're not obsessive with it then it's never going to have anything other than a positive effect.
 
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