"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If I'm *not* getting sore...

snintel

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Quick question here which may be a dumb one.

After my first week of working out, I was incredibly sore. So much so that I could barely move my arms enough to take off my shirt/wash my face/etc.

But the 2nd, 3rd, 4th weeks so far, I don't even get sore. I'm doing my sets to failure.

My question is, if I don't feel soreness, have my muscles "torn" at all? Or am I just recovering faster, or what? :confused:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Soreness is not the goal

IF you are getting stronger, lifting more weight or doing the same weight for more reps, then you are making progress.

Soreness is incidental.
 

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Easy. Just add more weight.

The general rule is: If you can do more 4-8 reps per set with that weight, it isn't heavy enough.
 

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Originally posted by snintel
Quick question here which may be a dumb one.

After my first week of working out, I was incredibly sore. So much so that I could barely move my arms enough to take off my shirt/wash my face/etc.

But the 2nd, 3rd, 4th weeks so far, I don't even get sore. I'm doing my sets to failure.

My question is, if I don't feel soreness, have my muscles "torn" at all? Or am I just recovering faster, or what? :confused:
soreness has many factors

but the number one reason you get sore after a time of not working out, is because your muscles arent used to that pump of blood that expands the sarcoplasm. If you get sore its usually because a better than usual pump, but there are many other factors like changed nutrition (often for the worse) sleep patterns, etc.
 

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Soreness is not a reliable indicator of progress, but you can't really expect to deadlift 500 for 10 and NOT feel like a truck's hit your back the next day.

As long as you constantly progress in good form then don't sweat the soreness (or lack thereof).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by snintel
Quick question here which may be a dumb one.

After my first week of working out, I was incredibly sore. So much so that I could barely move my arms enough to take off my shirt/wash my face/etc.

But the 2nd, 3rd, 4th weeks so far, I don't even get sore. I'm doing my sets to failure.

My question is, if I don't feel soreness, have my muscles "torn" at all? Or am I just recovering faster, or what? :confused:
as other people have said, sorness cant be used to judge. what you described happens to alot of people... they start out and get super sore the first week or two, but then dont get sore much after that. Im pretty sure its normal.
 

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hmmm, soreness is DOMS isnt it. DOMS doesnt really indicate if your work out has been good or not. I judge my work outs by how much hypertrhophy is achieved or failure. I try to get as much blood in that muscle as possible

peace

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