Yes, which is why you will choose 18 year olds when you are 27.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
If I'm 20 years old and have already given up on trying to talk to girls for the rest of my life is
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Yeah I can't wait until I am in my 40s and start appreciate 18 year olds more. Women go for status and resources anyway.
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Yeah that's what I was thinking but How am I supposed to meet 18 year olds when I'm 27?
I meet 18 year olds and I'm 47 (I look about 37). Grocery store clerks. Waitresses. Strippers.
Just keep working on yourself and women will throw themselves.
Today a gorgeous woman around age 27 with a child was bending over backwards trying accommodate me in the grocery store line, with no ring, but sorry. No single moms.
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Waiting 7 years to get puss is a long time lol, figuring out what I wanna do career wise is so hard for me and I've always had issues getting motivated for things.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You'll get charity pvssy from drunk girls your age along the way, who are between "sugar daddies" (i.e., men with jobs and testosterone). @sazc will call it true love.
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You are better than I was at 20. I wish I found this site when I was at your age. At 20, I was so shy, so depressed and I was too afraid to talk to anyone especially hot girls. I had no dream & I thought the world had ended for me and I wanted to commit suicide. I'm the oldest son in my family. I don't have anyone to guide me through life. I hated my father. You are better than I was. You're lucky to have a big brother who's good with women. Why not ask him how?
The only reason why have already given up on trying to talk to girls for the rest of your life is that you're seeking an easy way out of this mess you're doing. To be a better man or even a great man is not easy. You will need to face your fears. It's the only way out. No amount of money or tricks can get you out of it if you don't want to face your fears.
The only way to eliminate fear is just to face it head on.
The only reason why have already given up on trying to talk to girls for the rest of your life is that you're seeking an easy way out of this mess you're doing. To be a better man or even a great man is not easy. You will need to face your fears. It's the only way out. No amount of money or tricks can get you out of it if you don't want to face your fears.
The only way to eliminate fear is just to face it head on.
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Figuring out what you want to do career wise IS tough for a lot of people. I had a hell of time with that, but I just focused on what I was good at, and it worked out fine.
Focus on what you are best at, and you can't go too far wrong.