Yes, which is why you will choose 18 year olds when you are 27.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If I'm 20 years old and have already given up on trying to talk to girls for the rest of my life is
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Yeah I can't wait until I am in my 40s and start appreciate 18 year olds more. Women go for status and resources anyway.
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Yeah that's what I was thinking but How am I supposed to meet 18 year olds when I'm 27?
I meet 18 year olds and I'm 47 (I look about 37). Grocery store clerks. Waitresses. Strippers.
Just keep working on yourself and women will throw themselves.
Today a gorgeous woman around age 27 with a child was bending over backwards trying accommodate me in the grocery store line, with no ring, but sorry. No single moms.
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Waiting 7 years to get puss is a long time lol, figuring out what I wanna do career wise is so hard for me and I've always had issues getting motivated for things.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You'll get charity pvssy from drunk girls your age along the way, who are between "sugar daddies" (i.e., men with jobs and testosterone). @sazc will call it true love.
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You are better than I was at 20. I wish I found this site when I was at your age. At 20, I was so shy, so depressed and I was too afraid to talk to anyone especially hot girls. I had no dream & I thought the world had ended for me and I wanted to commit suicide. I'm the oldest son in my family. I don't have anyone to guide me through life. I hated my father. You are better than I was. You're lucky to have a big brother who's good with women. Why not ask him how?
The only reason why have already given up on trying to talk to girls for the rest of your life is that you're seeking an easy way out of this mess you're doing. To be a better man or even a great man is not easy. You will need to face your fears. It's the only way out. No amount of money or tricks can get you out of it if you don't want to face your fears.
The only way to eliminate fear is just to face it head on.
The only reason why have already given up on trying to talk to girls for the rest of your life is that you're seeking an easy way out of this mess you're doing. To be a better man or even a great man is not easy. You will need to face your fears. It's the only way out. No amount of money or tricks can get you out of it if you don't want to face your fears.
The only way to eliminate fear is just to face it head on.
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Figuring out what you want to do career wise IS tough for a lot of people. I had a hell of time with that, but I just focused on what I was good at, and it worked out fine.
Focus on what you are best at, and you can't go too far wrong.