So there's this girl on the bus who I crack on all the time. She's called me an "Asshole" a few times and even once I was like "Yeah, that's only because you like assholes". I don't really know if she's attracted, most of the time I just play around with her with negs. Once when we were having a conversation about "What girls were attracted to me" she said "I'm attracted". And once when she made a remark I said "Oh, you know you're only saying that because you can't have me" and she jokingly says something along the like this(What she really said was probably nothing like this, but this is basically the point of it) "Yes, now that I can't have you, my dreams are ruined". She's always laughing at my sh*t and once said "This is the part of school I always look forward". But despite her laughing, I just think she thinks I'm funny, nothing more, that if I were to ask her even as friends I would be rejected. I guess that's alright, since she's not that attractive anyway. But yeah I need some tips on this.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If I was going to move things on with this girl how would I?
- Thread starter ElStud
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