So there's this girl on the bus who I crack on all the time. She's called me an "Asshole" a few times and even once I was like "Yeah, that's only because you like assholes". I don't really know if she's attracted, most of the time I just play around with her with negs. Once when we were having a conversation about "What girls were attracted to me" she said "I'm attracted". And once when she made a remark I said "Oh, you know you're only saying that because you can't have me" and she jokingly says something along the like this(What she really said was probably nothing like this, but this is basically the point of it) "Yes, now that I can't have you, my dreams are ruined". She's always laughing at my sh*t and once said "This is the part of school I always look forward". But despite her laughing, I just think she thinks I'm funny, nothing more, that if I were to ask her even as friends I would be rejected. I guess that's alright, since she's not that attractive anyway. But yeah I need some tips on this.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If I was going to move things on with this girl how would I?
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