"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fly By Night

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Hey boys,

I haven't been on this site in quite a while. I've been seeing a bunch of different game and dating advice from different sources and I come back and still see the same stuff regurgitated here:

-Go NC!
-Flirt with other women!
-Spin more plates!

Also there is the looks vs. inner game conflict people are having and wondering which is more important (spoiler: both are important). I just saw this thread of someone asking for which material they should read if they are just starting out and I would like to point these out:

Note: You're going to need about an hour or more to read through all of this.

Sonny's Guide on Game: 10 Laws (Part I)

Sonny's Guide on Game: 10 Laws (Part II)

These spell it out. A lot of you guys here, as much as you don't want to admit it, are bad at just relating to people in general. Guys who have surrounded themselves with people and are good at communication usually are good with women. Couple that with other things such as being muscular and dressing good you should not have a problem at all with women in general.

I like this series because it takes you to fundamental skills that will help you in other areas in life and its not just a list of techniques to pull out on girls. Every law listed in this series is not an overnight fix, but if you are serious about becoming more attractive to women, you have no reason to not follow these laws.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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skinnyguy

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Some of the stuff was really hard to swallow but nevertheless thanks for posting this. It really made me wake up.
 
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