"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fly By Night

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Hey boys,

I haven't been on this site in quite a while. I've been seeing a bunch of different game and dating advice from different sources and I come back and still see the same stuff regurgitated here:

-Go NC!
-Flirt with other women!
-Spin more plates!

Also there is the looks vs. inner game conflict people are having and wondering which is more important (spoiler: both are important). I just saw this thread of someone asking for which material they should read if they are just starting out and I would like to point these out:

Note: You're going to need about an hour or more to read through all of this.

Sonny's Guide on Game: 10 Laws (Part I)

Sonny's Guide on Game: 10 Laws (Part II)

These spell it out. A lot of you guys here, as much as you don't want to admit it, are bad at just relating to people in general. Guys who have surrounded themselves with people and are good at communication usually are good with women. Couple that with other things such as being muscular and dressing good you should not have a problem at all with women in general.

I like this series because it takes you to fundamental skills that will help you in other areas in life and its not just a list of techniques to pull out on girls. Every law listed in this series is not an overnight fix, but if you are serious about becoming more attractive to women, you have no reason to not follow these laws.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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skinnyguy

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Some of the stuff was really hard to swallow but nevertheless thanks for posting this. It really made me wake up.
 
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