AlmostThere!
Senior Don Juan
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I don't have a problem being funny. I'm attractive. I have a good job.
I should have a couple girls I'm having sex with...or a GF.
But I don't approach girls unless I'm in a warm setting (used to be school, work, parties, through friends, etc). I don't approach girls in clubs, bars, or randomly.
My brother wonders why I'm not getting a whole lot of ***** because I live near two colleges. The way he makes it seem like there's a whole lot of ***** out there that I can get. To me, getting sex is damn hard. It feels like I have to work really hard to get some booty. It's like girls always want to take it slow with me, and then I try to rush the sex which ****s everything up.
Here's my thought pattern if I see a girl in a random situation or club/bar.
* She's hot.
* I should go over there and introduce myself.
* She's really hot and probably was approached 200 times already.
* She's probably having a bad day and don't want to chat.
* I'll find someone else who looks like they want to talk.
I put all these thoughts into my head and I care too much about what "might" be going on in a chick's life.
How can I just go after what I want and not care about who's looking, the situation, or what might be on a girl's mind at the time?
Basically, is it perfectly okay to strike up a conversation with a female in whatever situation I may find myself?
I should have a couple girls I'm having sex with...or a GF.
But I don't approach girls unless I'm in a warm setting (used to be school, work, parties, through friends, etc). I don't approach girls in clubs, bars, or randomly.
My brother wonders why I'm not getting a whole lot of ***** because I live near two colleges. The way he makes it seem like there's a whole lot of ***** out there that I can get. To me, getting sex is damn hard. It feels like I have to work really hard to get some booty. It's like girls always want to take it slow with me, and then I try to rush the sex which ****s everything up.
Here's my thought pattern if I see a girl in a random situation or club/bar.
* She's hot.
* I should go over there and introduce myself.
* She's really hot and probably was approached 200 times already.
* She's probably having a bad day and don't want to chat.
* I'll find someone else who looks like they want to talk.
I put all these thoughts into my head and I care too much about what "might" be going on in a chick's life.
How can I just go after what I want and not care about who's looking, the situation, or what might be on a girl's mind at the time?
Basically, is it perfectly okay to strike up a conversation with a female in whatever situation I may find myself?