"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If he’s not saying Yes, he’s saying No

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Women, once they reach a certain age, want a serious relationship and commitment from a man.
They have listed a few reasons that if the man does not fully commit, the women should not waste her time and move on to a man that will fully commit to her.


Does the site have a point, or is it on the lines of blue pill thinking?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Do you guys realize woman's 'certain' age for them wanting to fully commit?
It's 40 and up.
Those are broken women.
At that age they are looking in a man for 'looks', 'success', 'social status', 'money', and they want him to be all over her.
It's like she knows she was desired all her life, she knows she fcked a lot of men, she knows she's worth something, but she does not realize she is OLD, or have children, or that her value because of that has gone considerably down.
Women this age discover game, or some other techniques, they become extroverted.
And they have zero tolerance for anything. They are not women anymore...
They have lost their femininity in the natural process of menopause, or the stages nearing the menopause.

All of them, are one step away from being a grandma, IMO.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stopped reading at "A real man would tell you how he feels"

This is why you don't listen to a woman's advice

It's impossible for them to think outside of their emotions

Which don't even match up to their own preferences

Completely illogical, nonsensical and irrational
And that's why a man should always take the lead in a relationship.
 

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Don't take it too seriously. The purpose of these articles is just to ameliorate womens' chronically poor self esteem and anxiety... that's why they need to be told they're amazing, they're special, they deserve to be the happiest woman in the world, they don't have to worry as prince charming will one day fall into their particular lap and commit to them while they do whatever they feel like, but at the same time this hot, popular "jerk" who is probably dating down should man up and commit to her to not waste her time and She's Not That Kind of Girl until she is, and so on. You can tell which gender writes these articles and which gender they're written for just by reading the formulations. They're just a self esteem and anxiety pill for women, who now that they are recorded as more unhappy and neurotic than ever, need it more than ever... just let em do what they need to do. I kind of feel sorry for women in this regard.

The one thing I do sympathize with women on is that they can really fvck up their smv if they have kids with the wrong guy and become a single mom, and in the end they can only vet as well as they can and hope that doesn't happen, so they do have some reason to be anxious. Although who knows, maybe it's easier for single moms than you would think, I dunno. It's not something these articles mention so... haha.
 
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I didn't read the article, but it is true, for both sexes, anything other than a yes is a no.

And I will be telling my son, as well as my daughter, exactly that
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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They have a biological clock, so what exactly can you expect?

I am very careful when I date 30 year olds.
Ideally to be more serious in their 20s. I wouldn't want my hypothetical future daughter throwing away her youth and potential in her 20s on partying or "career."
 
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