"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If girl doesnt answer she has BF or not, what dose it mean?

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I ask a girl (One of my classmate but I didnt talk to her for a long time) "Do you have BF?" but she doesnt answer and ask me back "What about you?" in flirt way and then change the topic of conversation. :confused:

What does it mean when girl doesnt answer that she has BF or single?

I mean it is easy if you just say "I'm single or I have BF already" Why so complex.

I need some advice.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she does and doesn't want you to know(good sign)

or

she doesn't but doesn't want to give that away (a strangely dj thing to do for a girl)
 
Greasy Pig

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Asking a girl if she has a BF gives her an easy out.
As tictac said, just ask a girl out. You'll definitely know if she's single or not then.
 
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She will drop the boyfriend bomb if she's not interested in dating or sexing you. Don't ask this question. Instead, ask her out! Then you'll know.

Case closed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cerwin Vega

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A lot of good advice on these forums.
 
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You can't ever ask this because you should not care either way.

Although once I was talking to a girl in class who I KNEW had a boyfriend (someone else mentioned she had one). I knew this so I didn't ask her out or anything. I just asked her what she had done on the weekends and stuff. She would say things like "went to dinner" or "went out to blah blah".

She was probably interested in an upgrade but I never asked her out. Dumb.
 
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