"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If girl doesnt answer she has BF or not, what dose it mean?

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I ask a girl (One of my classmate but I didnt talk to her for a long time) "Do you have BF?" but she doesnt answer and ask me back "What about you?" in flirt way and then change the topic of conversation. :confused:

What does it mean when girl doesnt answer that she has BF or single?

I mean it is easy if you just say "I'm single or I have BF already" Why so complex.

I need some advice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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devilkingx2

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she does and doesn't want you to know(good sign)

or

she doesn't but doesn't want to give that away (a strangely dj thing to do for a girl)
 
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Asking a girl if she has a BF gives her an easy out.
As tictac said, just ask a girl out. You'll definitely know if she's single or not then.
 
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She will drop the boyfriend bomb if she's not interested in dating or sexing you. Don't ask this question. Instead, ask her out! Then you'll know.

Case closed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cerwin Vega

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A lot of good advice on these forums.
 
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You can't ever ask this because you should not care either way.

Although once I was talking to a girl in class who I KNEW had a boyfriend (someone else mentioned she had one). I knew this so I didn't ask her out or anything. I just asked her what she had done on the weekends and stuff. She would say things like "went to dinner" or "went out to blah blah".

She was probably interested in an upgrade but I never asked her out. Dumb.
 
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