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If a woman repeatedly glances at me in the gym but never smiles at me, does she want to be approached?

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I just came back from the gym. And when I was in one area of the gym, this girl glanced at me maybe 3-4 times. I then finished my work out there and moved to another part of the gym. 4 or 5 minutes later she comes to the same part of the gym and starts using some gear maybe 10 feet away from me. Again, she glanced at me maybe another 2 or 3 times. My workout was done and I sat on this couch at this lounge area to use my phone for a bit, and then she moved to where I was sitting previously. Again, she glanced about two times.

She glanced but never smiled. is this a go or a not so fast bucko?
 
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Just talk to her like a normal functioning members of society, please for the love of God don't use any cringe PUA pick up lines when you talk to her.

Talk to her over time and get to know her, slowly build up rapport from there.
 
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Georgepithyou said:
Just talk to her like a normal functioning members of society, please for the love of God don't use any cringe PUA pick up lines when you talk to her.

Talk to her over time and get to know her, slowly build up rapport from there.
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The only time I did this **** worked like stealing candy from a toddler though
 
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Yes, that happened to me before. I felt a girl kept glancing at me in the gym. When I looked at her she would look away.

One time I was on the ab machine and there were mirrors there that would show the entire gym. I saw her look over repeatedly when she thought I wasn't looking. I then approached her later on and she was friendly
 
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Yes, that happened to me before. I felt a girl kept glancing at me in the gym. When I looked at her she would look away.

One time I was on the ab machine and there were mirrors there that would show the entire gym. I saw her look over repeatedly when she thought I wasn't looking. I then approached her later on and she was friendly
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Did you bang?
 
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Did you bang?
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I hung out with her a few times. She was easy to talk too and no pressure. There's no effort involved when the person already likes you.

I would venture to say when guys here make posts about the process being difficult it's because they've been going after the wrong women/women who weren't interested in the first place.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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firstbornunicorn said:
I just came back from the gym. And when I was in one area of the gym, this girl glanced at me maybe 3-4 times. I then finished my work out there and moved to another part of the gym. 4 or 5 minutes later she comes to the same part of the gym and starts using some gear maybe 10 feet away from me. Again, she glanced at me maybe another 2 or 3 times. My workout was done and I sat on this couch at this lounge area to use my phone for a bit, and then she moved to where I was sitting previously. Again, she glanced about two times.

She glanced but never smiled. is this a go or a not so fast bucko?
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Make conversation with her and see how she reacts.
 
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firstbornunicorn said:
I just came back from the gym. And when I was in one area of the gym, this girl glanced at me maybe 3-4 times. I then finished my work out there and moved to another part of the gym. 4 or 5 minutes later she comes to the same part of the gym and starts using some gear maybe 10 feet away from me. Again, she glanced at me maybe another 2 or 3 times. My workout was done and I sat on this couch at this lounge area to use my phone for a bit, and then she moved to where I was sitting previously. Again, she glanced about two times.

She glanced but never smiled. is this a go or a not so fast bucko?
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That is a clear IOI and if you don't approach then it's a missed opportunity. Don't let this sosuave thing be a crutch to you. When you see a real life opportunity APPROACH THE GIRL, do not think you can go home and make a thread on it to get permission from random strangers. That's very weak. An alpha guy knows what he wants and goes for it. You want to be that guy and make that approach. Have one or two throw away lines so you don't have to think about what to say. Right now you may never see this girl again, or if you see her, she may not be in the same state as she was the last time you went, etc..... You have to seize the moment and approach.

I rarely get IOIs like that so I have to give you a kick in the rare.
 
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Poke fun at something she does.
" That all you got?"
" You lift like a girl!"
" Why'd you stop pushing that bar?"
The sting of regret hurts more, just go for it.

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This would be me: "I'm a bit self concious and I couldn't help but notice you looking. I hope it was for the right reasons and not the wrong ones?". You'll either get a smile from her or a look of disgust. Based on that you can carry the conversation in either direction.

As others said, don't make it harder than it needs to be.
 
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firstbornunicorn said:
Apparently not enough to go to talk to her.
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What if i told you she's very shy and dying for you to say something and she's lying awake at night thinking about you. Would that change anything?
Adopt that mindset.
 
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What if i told you she's very shy and dying for you to say something and she's lying awake at night thinking about you. Would that change anything?
Adopt that mindset.
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Yes it would, and I've adopted it in the past. There's no reason why any woman wouldn't want to be approached by me.
 
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firstbornunicorn said:
I just came back from the gym. And when I was in one area of the gym, this girl glanced at me maybe 3-4 times. I then finished my work out there and moved to another part of the gym. 4 or 5 minutes later she comes to the same part of the gym and starts using some gear maybe 10 feet away from me. Again, she glanced at me maybe another 2 or 3 times. My workout was done and I sat on this couch at this lounge area to use my phone for a bit, and then she moved to where I was sitting previously. Again, she glanced about two times.

She glanced but never smiled. is this a go or a not so fast bucko?
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She probbaly thinks your one of her onlyfans simps lool
 
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